Hey guys...

I was after a bit of advice..

Right I am a DJ in my home town and although you might think its easy to get the woman doing this job, sometimes when you see a nice girl you cant always leave your place of work to run over and communicate and say all those special words that you would like to say and use to get laid..

I am decent enough in looks but how the hell do I get girls to come over and chat to me when I m working ,by the time I have finished in the club most have gone,I don't want to see like im staring as there is the 3 second rule,but is there a technique here I can use to get them to come over with looking desperate..

Remember a DJ is not just for music I have feeling s as well..

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It looks so easy,especially when you know how,so tell me your secrets.....

I am a DJ as well. My technique for attracting girls is to do a shout out. You can just stop the music and be like, "hey girl in the white shorts come up here on stage for a minute." then resume the mixing. Or if you make eye contact with one, wave your fingers like you're saying come here. Almost all the time they'll come over (I mean you're the DJ why wouldn't they?).

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Ok mate nice touch................I like the finger waving technique,but as im out of practice ,what am I gonna say,hey did you see those 2 girls outside fighing over a guy earlier...................i not sure if It would work going straight for the juglier I need a softer approach,if possible

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It looks so easy,especially when you know how,so tell me your secrets.....

Exactly. Essentially the DJ is the most influential person in the room. You have a lot of power at your disposal so use it. Play a song as a dedication to a particular hot girl you've been eyeballing. Grab your microphone and do a short chit-chat interview with her. There are so many good ways to approach and initiate conversation from your DJ spot, you just have to be creative with it.

Funniest thing I've seen a DJ/MC do "First five girls to come up here and give me a kiss get's a free drink." Some girls run up. After they've all kissed him, "Okay now go over to the bartender over there and ask for your complimentary extra large free drink... of water." I was rolling on the floor laughing. The DJ/MC then pulled aside one of the girls he liked that kissed him, and bought her a drink (I know not PUA standard procedure but in the context of the situation it made sense, and it was probably free anyway since he's the DJ). Twenty minutes later or so, I see them making out between songs.

LOL...............I that dude pritty dam good................unfortunately I dont use mics Im a house dj so its just the tunes mate,but thats pritty dam good feller.....

I just thought of one when a go for a piss,go up to the girls and use the obvious and say....................fuck thats dj is good isnt he,why dont you go over and talk to him ,you never know he might put a tune on for you................if your lucky......

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It looks so easy,especially when you know how,so tell me your secrets.....