I met a girl at a party last saturday. At the end of the night i K closed. Later in the week (tuesday) i texted her asking her if she wanted to come to a party with me next weekend. I got a text back, initially she sounded really interested but said she might not be able to go because of hockey that night. So i texted her back the time of the party and at the end of the text i said "No big loss if you dont come ". Its now Thursday and she still hasnt replied to that text. Was i too aggressive with that ending line? Is there any way i can ween her to this party with me which is tomorrow night? HELP PLEASE!

the trouble is the more u txt the more AFC u look and the less likely she will txt bk, cut off communication, go do some daygame and get a date for the party.

what she might do is leave it until the last minute to decide, if u have a 2nd option a) u can make her jealous and b) you have a date already.... so no lose situation.

Whenever numbers go cold I leave them a week and they end up txting me lol.

Credit could also be a problem, try calling her once see if she answers then write the girl off for now