hello all, i have read mystery method and found it amazing! ive been out a few times to test these things i have learnt but what i find myself doing is say in a group of 4 girls only 1 or 2 will be interested and i can see the others are bored out of there brains. so how can i work on keeping everyone interested?

engage the rest of the group, look them all straight in the eyes, ask them questions, joke around with them.
basically, pretend the group of girls is a group of good friends (just keep the swearing and crude jokes on the low)

and dont stay in the set long enough for them to get bored - remember to isolate.

all right cheers i shall try this tonight wondering if i could possibly get some gambits to use because i often find myself stalling and running out of things to say and how long is too long as well i remember one time i talked to a 2 set for about 30mins turned out to be a dud number so im assuming that was too long

if you got a dud number then it's 1 of 2 things - you took down the wrong number by accident or you didnt build enough attraction.

listen to what she says carefully - she'll give you a lot of things to talk about if you LISTEN, so then you wont run out of things to say.
you should be out of the set and isolated before you run out of things to say/talk about, then you can focus on showing her that you're pretty much the most amazing guy in the world.

it all comes down to practice though, so practice.

and screw gambits - they hold you back from developing yourself. just be fun, funny, friendly and INTERESTING.

Allright thanks a lot, another question i went out last night and talked to a group of 3 girls and i used the "is your hair always like that, oh well it looks nice anyway" i then got a reply to this which stumped me "what don't you like it? do you want me to straighten it" what do you say to that i ended up just avoiding the question entirely and moving on but she wasn't impressed and came back to it later