I met this milf threw a girl I was running game on.
The two live together, I've established that i had no interest with this HB anymore and made it clear i was interested in her milf friend who is 35yrs old.
My HB friend who is 22 and Myself who is 23yrs old.
I've stated my intentions of liking the milf directly to her and we got the age issue out of the way right away.
I get flirty responses back from her as I know older women are more direct.
She has been divorced for a few years , the last boyfriend she said was a chump that didn't want sex as much as her, she also told me she has a vibrator named B.O.B ( battery operated boy ) and it rocks her world literally .
Her kid is 11yrs old.
I used to go over to there house every once in awhile because of the HB to pick her up or hangout there . But i Do have the milf's phone number/ text , also on facebook.
The milf doesn't text as much as the HB did, but i can understand she has a job and a kid, who go's from the fathers to her house every other week .

But aside from that my main questions are :

a)Should this be a discreet thing and be a guilty pleasure she can't resist ? or a out in the open thing ?

b) The hb had a bit of a grudge against me and has been pretty chippy from jealously or lack of attention, but it hasn't fazed the milf i don't think. ( should i try to be nice to the hb or ignore her? )

c) Any other advice you people can offer ?

I just wonder what is going threw the milfs mind

Anyone got any advice ?

I think you should definitely treat it as a guilty pleasure. If it's taboo, it more exciting, and at her age she craves excitement like you crave pussy. You probably should try escalating and kinoing more. She's a grown woman, she won't like playing games. If you want to fuck her and she wants to fuck you, then just go for it. Playing around and preparing for the future is probably pissing her off. She's a horny old woman who wants to get laid. Just go for it. She's pretty much been giving you the green light with all the sex talk. She just wants you to take charge like a grown-ass man, and lead her. At her age she's really down for whatever, as long as you make it happen.