Hey y'all...seems like it would be cool to toss out some ideas on sex games to play. Women needs lots of warm-up time, so I think games can make for some great foreplay. I'll post one of my newer favorites, which needs no props and is really simple:

Touch-n-kiss:
- Have her touch you where she wants you to kiss her.
- Kiss her (lick, suck, whatever) in the equivalent area where she touched you.
- You touch her where you want her to kiss you.
- She kisses you in the equivalent area where you touched her.
- Repeat until neither one of you can wait any longer to bang it out!

If you are both still dressed, the touch-er should remove a piece of clothing from the touch-ee, then the kiss-er should remove the equivalent piece of clothing from the kiss-ee.

I think lots of folks find it hard to communicate during sex, but communicating about what you like or want makes the sex so much better. Go slow and use it as a way to learn where and how your partner likes to be touched, kissed, licked, sucked, whatever.

Happy erotic adventures,
Gruuve

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Cool post, 870. These are somewhat similar in mechanics!

Gruuve

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Gruuve man,,, that's way cool. I don't know. It just seems like work. I'm sure it's super productive and it is a hurdle us guys have to cross, etc, etc, etc,

But I got a giggle out of it. It reminded me of a time my buddy and I "teamed" some chick on the beach in college. It was a bon-fire party at night. It didn't start with touching or massage,,, dude I ain't shttin ya, it all started with my buddy saying "take the unit baby".

That's all it took.

I still laugh about it.

ANyways it does touch on a conversation we had before, how to line up two ladies for a threesome. I just read the book "The Game" and according to Style, the trick is to get 2 girls working on your back, and then to change around. The important thing is to identify the more important chick and turn it into her fantasy....

Cheers Brotha...

Too funny, dude! Ya know, comments like this make me question whether I'm just not being forward/aggressive enough, and should just turn up the heat a little. I'm probably being way to reserved in how I point things in a sexual direction with the first lay. Sounds like some experimentation is in order, eh?

Gruuve

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Dude, I bet you're right on track. A lot of times it's just a matter of opportunity. I mean with some women,,, as soon as you meet them, the work is over.

Experimenting is always good. I think women read us really well. If you start getting sexual, and they smell you gettind "sweaty" about it, you're toast. Now on the other hand, if you have it cool in your mind and drop the subject, that's an entirely differant vibe.

Again, posts like this make me think I'm REALLY not being forward enough. I know how to fuck once I get them into bed (had 14 years of married practice at keeping things hot and interesting!)...getting them there in the first place seems to be my issue. I'm a nice-looking guy with a friendly personality (probably too "nice"...that's probably my damn issue! LOL)...I should be getting laid quite a bit more than I am.

Cheers,
Gruuve

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So, here's another cool sex game that I like...the "Writing Game"...write or draw on her body! Get her naked or mostly naked and write or draw on her with anything you choose...your fingers, your tongue, dip your fingers in some hot massage oil, use a water-soluble magic marker, a paint brush with watercolors or hot oil, a temporary tattoo kit with Henna ink, whipped cream, a cold popsickle...whatever pops into your mind or is available and convenient. Write the letters large and slow, use all caps, and have her read what you are writing by sensation rather than sight. Fingers with hot oil works well on her stomach and chest, just dry fingers works well on her back, maybe Henna ink on her legs or stomach or ass, tongue works well on her crotch. Make whatever you write very erotic...whatever pops into your mind..."HOT BODY", "I LOVE YOU" (but only if it's true!), "EAT YOU", "SWEET PUSSY", "COME ON ME"...you get the idea. Or if you're a good artist, draw something cool with the temp tattoo ink, watercolors, water-soluble magic markers, etc. (Don't get any ink or anything in or on her pussy however...that's sensitive skin, and you don't want her stopping you because she's burning, etc.!) You can have her close her eyes, or put a blindfold on her, or for that matter, tie her up and put a blindfold on her.

Some examples:

- When I'm going down on a woman, I'll often start writing words with my tongue on her crotch. This is cool because you don't need any kind of props to do it. I'll whisper in her ear "See if you can read this", then I'll lick it all around her pussy using big slow capital letters...something as simple as "EAT YOU", "SWEET PUSSY!", "LIKE THIS?", etc., will often having her writhing in ecstacy. It's very much a mind-fuck...all that anticipation of occupying her mind while giving her nice sensations seems to be a major turn-on. Licking big letters slowly has you touching areas you might not normally touch (like her mound, the creases of her legs, the spot between her pussy and anus that's very sensitive, etc.), and it introduces some nice randomness into what you're doing to her. They LOVE exclamation points or question marks, if you follow me. Take your time and go slow...the idea is to get her worked up. Get her so dripping wet that she can't wait to pounce on you!

- I once tied up a woman and blindfolded her, then took water-soluble magic markers and started drawing a butterly around her pussy. (I had already mind-fucked her by writing an erotic story about her getting a tattoo on her pussy from a hot guy while I watched, so I decided to extend on the fantasy in a harmless way). Her pussy was the "body" of the butterfly, the upper wings went from her clit to her lower stomach, the lower wings went from the bottom of her pussy onto her inner thighs, the antenna went from her clit up her stomach around her bellybutton. I drew the outline in black, and then colored it all in. When I was drawing around her pussy lips, I'd "accidentally" rest my hand on her clit or I'd non-chalantly stick a finger in her and gently grab her labia and pull it to the side to tighten up the skin in the crease of her leg. I took my time...about 20-30 minutes or so. It was really hard to draw on her after about the first 5-10 mins or so...she was wiggling, twisting, moaning, and coming over and over for about 15 minutes or so while I was "working"...LOL. When I untied her, she was just out of control...she shoved me down, pounced on top of me, and fucked the living hell out of me. Whew! What a good night!

There's plenty more you can do with the "writing/drawing game"...just use your imagination.

Gruuve

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Here's another fun one...take a date that you've already had sex with to a strip bar with you. Get a couple's lap dance, and tell the stripper to entertain her as much as she does you. Most strippers are totally cool with this and know what to do. Most women have at least a little bi-curiosity (even if they won't admit it and are totally homophobic...when they get turned on with another woman there, they will likely enjoy the other woman even though they swear they are totally repulsed by the idea. ) It's up to you whether you tell her where you're going or you surprise her with it (be careful with surprising her though...that could really backfire...you'll have to judge her tolerance level.) You might end up fucking each other in your car on the way home.

Gruuve

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Here's another one I just remembered. It requires a fairly expensive prop ($50-60) unfortunately, but it can be quite fun.

Buy a pair of the thong panties that have a remote-controlled bullet vibrator in a pocket and a wireless remote. Tell her she has to wear the panties, and you are keeping the remote. Dare her to wear them. You can also not tell her about the remote until you actually get somewhere else and you buzz her.

Take her out somewhere public...a restaurant, quiet bar, etc. Buzz her a little while you're out...while she's talking to the waiter/waitress, bartender, etc., and also you should kiss her and buzz her while you're kissing. Now, don't do it so much it's totally annoying, just enough to remind her it's there and that you control it. Don't let her have the remote...maintain your male dominance.

If you are brave enough (and don't think she'll get totally pissed), go hand the remote to a stranger, male or female, or even another couple. It's up to you whether you tell them what the remote controls or not. You could keep it discrete..."here's a remote, will you hold it for 15 seconds"..."what does it control?"...I can't tell you that, but just push the button a few times". (They'll probably make some guesses.) Or you can be more direct..."My date is wearing a vibrating thong...here is the remote, you get to hold it for 15 seconds." This can be fun if you're handing the remote to a guy or to a girl.

If you hand it to a guy, choose carefully...some AMOG might not be too cooperative in giving it back....choose some mild-mannered AFC who your date is likely to think is cute. If you hand it to a girl, you might end up having a threesome that night...who knows! She'll definitely get a laugh out of it...ask her if she wants to join the two of you later. Even if she says "no", you can still go tease your date with "she said she wants to join us later". Same thing applies with the couple.

The point here of course is to get your date/girlfriend/whatever so turned on that she uncontrollably fucks your brains out later.

Have fun with it!

Gruuve

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Ya know, some of these have quite a bit of kink factor to them. I personally think that's good. If you're with a woman who thinks your wild and kinky in the sack, and you get her off hard at least periodically, she'll never forget you and she'll likely compare every lover after to you. Even if you two part ways at some point, she'll always have some quite fond memories about it. Sex is adult playtime...it should be fun and playful.

Gruuve

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Fuck Groove, that is some far out shit! I like it.