i was wondering if anyone has done the following or whether they think it would go down well..

you open, do sort of DHV routine such lie detector test or some cool gimmicky thing that impresses her and grabs her interest...then when done you say ok your turn to show ME something cool now...most times she wont have anything which is expected...i was thinking of saying at this moment...look at her and sigh saying 'ah, not ANOTHER boring one' and pretend to walk off... then turn back around to her and smile letting her know you were just teasing, and carry on chatting.

1. now, even though you showed you were joking with her, she will probably start trying to act interesting and start trying to prove herself to you just encase you really thought she was being boring (which is exactly where you want her..working for you).

2. Secondly you are also DHVing at the same time by saying 'not ANOTHER boring one' as it implies that you chat to alot of girls and you just cant find any of them interesting enough to talk! ie. demostrating that you are the selector so be better start shaping up to get any more of your attention.

I think this 'not ANOTHER boring one' comment to her could reframe things quite nicely in your favor.

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yeah it would work a treat mate, I had a similar setup Ive mentioned before...

Im talking DHV to a HB and she keeps calling me cocky and cheeky whenever we talking etc...

This starts to grind on me a bit so I say to her

"do you know whats really cocky? If I turn around and ignore you"

so I did, talked to my wing for 30 seconds, she stood there silent, then started talkin to back of my head, after the 30 seconds were up I turned around, put my arm round her and isolated her, she actually talked to the back of my head for 15 seconds at least before I turned back to face her.

basically by doing something over dramatic your making a potential situation for her to lose ur attention, infact I completely removed mine and she stayed exactly how she was like I just snatched candy out of her mouth lol

ha ha, nice one. Will try that one too mate.

Funny enough I often get told im cheeky too (specially by my ex), or that im an asshole, but not the 'i dont like you and i think youre rude' kinda asshole, its more the hitting me on the arm while shes smiling from ear to ear thinking i would bang this guy right here if i could kinda asshole.

i like being a cheeky asshole, a desirable cheeky asshole

Negging is good but telling someone they are boring is not.

This actually implies that you have bored other girls. If she's boring, that's her bad. If she's part of a group of bored girls... then it says, "I bore girls". And girls get this on a very fundamental level. This is called calibration and reading subtext.


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telling them they are boring IS a neg in itself. said in a joking way pretending to walk off...no different from telling them they are retarded (once again jokingly) or asking how their bfriend puts up with them etc etc. its all in the delivery...you can pretty much say anything if its said with the right effect

Im not quite what you mean when you say that it actually implies that 'I bore girls'...if i jokingly tell her shes boring because she cannot tell me (or show me) anything interesting when i request her to, how does that say im boring? i have just demonstrated that I am the opposite of boring by showing her the trick/game and impressing her. now im putting subtle pressure on her to prove herself to me. i dont see how this makes me boring? please rephrase (i understand what subtext is). if i DIDNT demonstrate something cool to her before hand THEN i may come across as brong and the type that needs tobe entertained as I cannot do it on my own. but when reciprocation is involved surely it doesnt mean i am impying hat im boring.