Just wondered what everybody did in situations like mine. Got to know this girl and constantly in contact (text, school, etc) but anyways she told me that she didnt think she was interested after a while. Since then, we've been pretty much best friends (for a few months, WEIRD situation I guess) and I just wondered what you guys would have done. I didnt mean to stay THAT close to her but it just kinda happened. Any chance of changing her mind though or is the friend zone a black hole?

Hi Apowell,

we are social creatures and we all need friends. Heres what you need to ask yourself:

Are you still seeing her because you are sexually (or romantically) attracted to her?

No: then it's OK, be friends and enjoy each other's company

Yes (its yes isn't it ): thats not very fair to her AND yourself. Punch out because
A: its a fake friendship that way
B: its a waste of energy: focus your energy on better prospects (HB's who didn't IOD and or LJBF'd you.)
C: your chances with her will not improve (they COULD improve if she sees you have succes with girls she considers of her own calibre or higher.)

Good luck!

greetz

Bucc

it is possible to get out of the friend zone

first thing you do is stop being there for her like you normally would
gradually stop doing the things shes use to
kinda cut it off
dont talk as much to her
start doing things so your busy and cant really talk to her or hangout
DO NOT ACT LIKE YOUR BUSY
it makes you look lame and is really easy to tell if your lying
about having alot to do

start going out and doing things

something ive used in the pass was to
go for another girl i was interested in
once i even made up one lol
it really dosent matter
but come to her for your troubles with this girl
flip the script
now shes the one who is seeking more attention
she will keep trying to ask you about this girl, your life and all that
if you pull it off right
and you seem like the one who wants to "just be friends" with her
gaming you
after the whole friends thing is gone now you can game her like you normally would with a girl

thats typically the way i deal with 'friend zones'

honestly though if shes an awesome friend
and you like her for her
and not only want to sex her up and all that stuff
just remain friends
she can help you out with gamig other girls
you can have a girls opinion on stuff
plus you have a great person in your awesome social circle

in my opinion though

it takes to much energy and time
just move on and have fun
game another girl
and keep her as a friend

hope this helped


cheers,


-hatch

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