Am 17years old, and sometimes i get into a muddle when am gaming a girl and she says she likes some1. What should I do? And theres even this one girl that has been asked out by this other guy and she seems to be falling for him, yet shes showing IOI. So far i have been pushing her awya, telling her she shjould go for him - as i thought this is what Neil suggests " the more you push them, the more they come running back". But is this the right thing to do or should i do something else?

Forget about her. Go game some other girls. At the end she might even get jealous and chase you. Anyway, you are only 17 years old. Just have fun and try to game all the girls in the world, man. Don't waste your time on this one. Practice and become a great PUA. The more you practice now, the better your future wife will be

man, I wish i could do that, the thing is I dont give up on things easily. I mean if am gonna lose a girl I wanna know every last details as to why I did so the same thing doesnt happen again. And also, for every post that I make, everyone is saying move to another girl. Surely there must be somthing??

You are too young for her. When you get older you should notice that girls her age give you a lot more respect. Don't fight life. Let her be free!!

Huh? Say what?

1. You are never too young or too old to game anybody.
2. And the very act of crossing girls off of your "game list", affects your confidence and progression. (By the way, this is what women habitually do but hey, they have no balls.)

Why forget her and why is he too young? This girl isn't married, nor is she even hitched. And she practically sounds like a female version of an AFC ... Based on what the OP wrote, you couldn't even begin to put odds on his chances.

angelz,

We have a situation here. You're playing the "harmless matchmaker" for a girl who is opening up to you. Girls do not chat about their love/sex lives with guys who they don't trust; so you have this going for you. But unless she's playing the "jealous card", girls seldom chat about their love/sex lives with guys who they are sexually "nervous" about. (So this can be your problem)

The way you've been communicating with her in the past has turned you into her "comfort food". You ain't spicy and you ain't dangerous. So telling her, "Go for him!" Will do NOTHING for you. Telling her "Go for him!" would only work if she sees you as a potential sexual partner. So start making YOURSELF a potential sexual partner.

1. Stop playing your nervous and giddy match maker games.
2. Start playing the "teasing" match maker games.

a. Pretend she's your 8th grade little sister who's got a crush on a high school senior. You'd tell her, "Ooh . . . so are you going to get maaaaaried?" . . . "That is so cute." . . . "I just want to tell you, that the surgeon general says condoms can be an effective means of STD prevention." . . . "Did he kiss you on the first date? Oh, you young kids . . . " . . . "So . . . does he pop a boner when he holds your hands?" . . ." . . . "Did you kids already swap saliva?" . . . "Did he go doooooown on you?" Push her, push her . . .

Until she, "You are so fresh!" or "giggle, giggle. . ." . . ."I don't believe you! . . ." (You're raising her sexual temperature)

Then you go: Woh, woh . . . just looking out for you. I would never swap saliva with you. No way . . . never . . . no . . . well, not until the 3rd date. I'm a traditional guy. My first date with you? All you're getting is a peck on the cheek. (Now you're transitioning the topic to YOU)

She goes: Blah, blah, blah . . . (No matter what the hell she says. Keep your frame. This is your show and nobody else runs it.)

You go: Hey come on . . . I'm your pal. I wouldn't even go down on you until our 5th date. (Then you stare at her up and down and go . . .) No, make that the 4thdate. Saliva swapping first . . . then the freaky. . . Yeah . . . the freaky . . . (Offer her a high five. She obviously won't reciprocate. )

Now this is when you just DROP the whole thing. And talk about something totally random like, "Hey, so you see the Lakers game yesterday? They're nuts!" (Like the conversation you just had above meant about as much to you as a Laker's game.)

Every time she talks about her and her needle dicked "boy", you just treat them like little kids, raise her sexual temperature, and transition that energy to you. . . to the point of discomfort. Kino, kino, kino . . .but nothing in a sexual way at first. punch her gently on the shoulder . . . "You kiddo . . . " Grab her elbow to get her attention once in a while. Then you just DROP it like there's plenty of other fun things to chat about . . .

She'll either 1. plant a little seed to get back on that "sexual roller coaster talk" with you . . . or 2. she'll stop bringing her "boy crush" up with you.

I'm betting on "1". And when she does, reward her by getting her sexually high. Keep bouncing back and forth this way. You'll get yourself an "instant date". Good luck. . . and if you strike out . . . go out swinging for the fences.

Well you see, despite the fact that I explained to this girl that he is a good guy and he will treat her nicely and look after her - she said no to him, as in she isnt going out with him. But the guys been acting really AFC lately, going to see her everyday, waiting for her at her bustop etc. And she seems to be eating that shit up, she says " it nice to have a booy waiting for you, to come chasing you just to talk to you...". This started to piss me off, we always get into this arguement. So I dont know is sexuality really the way out here?She says she wants to give some times before she makes a final desicion.

Don't wait. You don't let a girl "decide" anything . . . because they NEVER decide on anything. Have you ever gone shopping with a girl?

Take the route I suggested for you. You make the decision for her. You make it easy for her. You're the guy who makes things exciting for her. you're the guy the guy who is willing to take the "risk"(you'll realize later on that the word "risk" applied to things like this is a joke . . .)

She'll go, "I choose you . . . " - Yeah right . . .