Okay I met this HB9 through my brother, a spanish chick. Perfect body and everything but not a 10. Well shes a little younger than me and we started to talk and all. Afterwards we set up a double date with her and her cousin with her cousins date. We went to the movies (they wanted to go, I suggested we go out to dinner) and we went to see Fighting (pretty good movie). Well it was all good, during the beggining of the movie I was getting major IOI's, she kept touching her hair, everytime I spoke to her and made her laugh she would slightly turn her head away and I would see her bite her lip. Then we both at the same time held hands, after a little bit, I said a couple of things in spanish to her and she turned her head to me and started to giggle and I was all smooth with it...


Me: Dame un beso"

She turns her head towards me looking at me and giggling and I slowly went in for the kiss, we kissed about 3 times short...she stops

HB9: See I told you I was shy

......shy? I know I'm not a bad kisser or anything like I prepared for this pretty damn good, my breath didn't stink or nothing, but her kissing was horrible like right away felt like I was kissing a vacuum she just sucked in too hard. But I kept going, she stopped it.

So we just talked a little, I tried to lead for another kiss but nothing. So we left the movies and checked a couple stores out, then her ride was there to pick her and her cousin up, so we kissed goodbye, quick peck nothing serious.




Well the next day we were texting and then shes pulls this out....

Well I'm not sure if we should take things any farther, you remind me too much of my ex.

It's been well over a year since she been with her ex so I found that to be complete BS.

I replied back saying yea I'll give you some time to make a right decision.

After that we rarely even talk, nothing......


Any idea on how to kick this back up again. She says she may get back with her boyfriend, but they broke up because he couldn't see her a lot and he said he loves her and will be back with her, I don't hear about them being back together, I think it was just a BS thing to get me out of the picture for some odd reason.

The only bad thing in this whole thing was that her cousin was a bitch to me, I kept neggin her after I got fed up with her comments. The girl I was with said not to worry about it that shes like that with all the boys thats been around her.


But yea what should I do just call the whole thing off and move on? or try something to kick it up again and how?

Well I aint a pro PUA (yet lol) but negging her cousin was probably not a good idea man you have to remember she goes home at the end of the night with her not you so when they talk about the date the cousin bitches about you and makes every bad comment about you she can and mentions how rude you were to her etc, You need to win over the cousin so at the end of the night she comments on your good points, if she is always like that with her cousins male companions maybe she is overprotective of her if it was only a few it may be jelousy but all of them sounds protective and maybe she doesn't think anyone is good enough for her cousin. One of the best things you can have said about you is "he was really nice even to me even though I was a total bitch to him", you have showed the cousin you can 1. be mean, 2. get angry easily, 3. get angry at a female. 3 bad factors that she would have passed onto her cousin for sure.
Now personally I would move on but if you are insistant on her my suggestion would be to win over the cousin if you can change the cousins view on you then she may just talk to her cousin and compliment you to her. An easy way to win over a bitch in my experience is to target their boyfriend and become friends with him have him help sway her judgement on you, maybe even use him to talk to his gf to say something to your cousin and set things up again. Use him to put you into situations where you can come across as a nice guy who is interested in persuing her cousin not just nailing her etc. As I said man I am no pro this is just how I see things from my POV. hope this helps.

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