hey guys, I've noticed something about my encounters, every time I start talking to a grl they always have to mention something about their boyfriend, why is this so, and note I'm a good looking PUA

Girls are emotional. It doesn't mean that they don't show interest. Maybe she just wants to make you jealous or get your attention.

She doesn't want you. That is a sign of a lack of interest. What do you want? Do you want her to hit you over the head? Do you want lights to start flashing and a funny whistle to be sounded to let you know that game is over? There comes a point when you just move on.

their actually smiling at me, and giving me ioi wiseguy

I don't know why they do it, but it means jack shit.

I remember some years ago hooking up with a random girl in a bar. All she talked about all night long was her fecking BF. She bored me. The last straw was the remark "I love him more each day". I'd had enough then, was just about ready to bail out when she changed the subject.

30 minutes later I was fucking her brains out!

I really have a problem with this.

I met a girl at a party on friday and we really hit it off, my game was stellar, though when i went in for the kiss she pulled away at the last microsecond and said " I have a boyfriend, but if I didn't I so would". I extracted her number and we have been texting all weekend, she is definitely interested. It depends on the tonality of what they say, if they say this right away it means your choreographing too much interest up front (a classic mistake). When you approach, you don't want to be hitting on her, you want to ignore her for the first while. It's when she's attracted to you that you need to hit on her.

- Memento

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I really have a problem with this.

I met a girl at a party on friday and we really hit it off, my game was stellar, though when i went in for the kiss she pulled away at the last microsecond and said " I have a boyfriend, but if I didn't I so would". I extracted her number and we have been texting all weekend, she is definitely interested. It depends on the tonality of what they say, if they say this right away it means your choreographing too much interest up front (a classic mistake). When you approach, you don't want to be hitting on her, you want to ignore her for the first while. It's when she's attracted to you that you need to hit on her.

- Memento[/quote]

I totally agree with you man, well said!

most girls use I have a bf as a shit test. I they do fuck it game her anyway most women are in shitty boring relationships anyway

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their actually smiling at me, and giving me ioi wiseguy

Then this is what you should focus on, not what she is 'saying'. What they say is irrelevant because if you get her IL high enough, boyfriend or not, your chances of banging her increases. Women will mention past and present boyfriends, husbands, etc. In the end, her IL is what counts.

I've had many girls try that line with me, and some how their thongs still end up on the floor somehow. Interesting...

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she only wants you to think that someone else has interest in her...pay that no
mind

Well, there are some explanations to this behaviour. And they dont necessarily fit together.

1. She has a boyfriend and is not interested. IOIs come from still being nice and not pissing you off.

2. If you are a good looking guy you may want to play that down a bit, its like the DHV stories, if you are too aware of it it may work against you. She may think that "that guy thinks that he is gods gift to woman" better bring him back to earth. She wanna show that you dont impress her with your looks and mentions her BF. Just like we demonstrate preselection.

3. She doesnt have a BF but she wants to get rid of you because of anything and everything.

4. It is a shit test.

5. She wants you to know the game board. If there is a BF involved it doesnt necessarily mean that she is out of reach, just that you gotta keep quiet about it all.

6. It doesnt mean anything, she just mentions him just like she might mention her sister.

Ezo

She want to prove that she's not ugly.

2 things:

1) you are doing something wrong and it's a rejection.

But if you are not doing something wrong and she's just casually mentioning it as an aside (as you said she was smiling at you when said it)...

2) It means you are doing something right. The sexual tension has been turned on and you are now a sexual threat. Possibly your good looks. This is not a disqualifier in and of itself. It's just her saying, "I need you to be ok with the fact that I have a BF."

Game on!

S

Yeah.........because we all know that every girl doesn't have a b/f >_>

Seriously, that was rather dumb of you to say.

I assume it means you're telegraphing too much interest, so even if they are interested the bitch shield comes up. try negging more, and being more uninterested. have a greater willingness to walk away and see what happens