What are your opinions on second chances?

To put it briefly, I'm trying to make up for a missed opportunity. Without going into too much detail (because it is a long story), I'll give you the short version.

There was this girl who I met a few months ago. When we met we instatly hit it off and ended up hookin up. After that night we didn't see each other for a few months since we went to different schools. Although we didn't see each other we kept in touch via phone, email, IM etc.

Anyways I saw her again a few weeks ago and it didn't turn out how I expected. I was hoping we would hook up again but I wasn't sure she wanted to. I went to a party with some friends and I planned to meet her there. When I got there we started talking and I just wasn't 'feeling it' I didn't get that same feeling I had a few months ago when we met and I didn't think we'd end up hooking up.

Anyways throughout the night my friends kept telling me to make a move and to do something and to stop waiting around. They were saying they could tell she wanted to hookup and I was being a pussy by not doing anything. I still wasn't feeling it but my friends were filling my head with all these thoughts and psyching me out. Everything started to become awkward and I just couldn't relax or be myself. I kept thinking like "should I or shouldn't I", I started doubting all my actions and my head was just not in a good place.

I did try to hook up with her but my game was just so poor since I was such a wreck (mentally) and it didn't turn out well and she said she'd rather just be friends.

I did talk to her the next day about it and told her that I just wasn't myself and I got psyched out hard and she said it wasn't a big deal and not to worry and she thinks its better if we're just friends

So my question is should I try again? Perhaps its true and she does just want to be friends and no matter how good my game was that night it wouldn't of happened. Or maybe my friends were right and she did want to fool around but then due to the fact that I waited so long to do anything and then I started acting awkward and not myself which led to weak game, perhaps that turned her off. Either way I'd like to hook up with her again. When I see her again what should I do? Any opinions are welcome.

Thanks,
Jason

anyone?

Some psychiatrist or writer or something like that once said:
Beauty is allways more beautifull when remembered. (its true)

If you dont feel it dont do it. Cause you would just leave a bad impression.
Maybe it had to do with your mood or something, but i find its best to not do any pick up things when you feel bad.

Maybe sometime later you can try again.


If youre still interested in her you will have to find some way out of the LJBF zone.
I have been in that zone only once and i got some topic on how i got out of it somewhere. (you can use the search option)
But there are a lot more posts about it.

Also you have been speaking with her for too long without actually doing anything.
If you talk for a half year on i net you might bond a bit. But it doesnt allow a lot of attraction. If you wanna learn more on that check the online sarging forum. Doesnt really fit in my personal style so not much i can tell you about that.
I preffer simple face to face daygame.

Good luck though!