in class actually a girl asked me to prom. yeah.. well it makes sense for a girl to ask a guy if he knew her / he flirted with her, but i dont really know the girl that much at all and i only talk to her in one class.. and dind't know her previously. and im not into her at all. shes not attractice and kind of annoying. but im just kind of friends with her and talk to her in that class. when i talk to her i obvioulsy dont flirt or anything.. I was really surprised and taken off guard when she asked me in the middle of class. i really couldn't say no with everyone looking and i was kind of shocked, and had to say yes. ahhhhh

So obviously I said yes because it was in the middle of the whole class. But honesty, I don't really want to go to prom with her. I don't even know her very well, we're just kind of friends. she's kind of annoying. And I'm not into her at all, shes not hot at all (a 5.9 i'd say about) and has an annoying personality. I don't want to go to prom with her! ahhh. Plus she asked me.. which makes it worse.

So, what should I do?

shes a nice girl and all.. but ahh im just not interested in her. now i'd jhave to spend like 100 for tickets, get new clothes, limo, etc. etc.. and barely any of my friends are going too.. plus im not big on dancing.. so i really dont want to go.. so should i:?

Should I just go with her, even though I dont want to and try to have a fun time and stuff...?

Or should I tell her nicely somehow I don't want to go. I'd probably have to tell her quickly. Because I actually don't want to go. it happened today. But then I'd feel bad she'd probably be sad and I don't want to be all awkward with her.

But I don't want to go with her!! ahhh.. and now i deffinetly cant ask anyone else.. this sucks.
i dont wanna be a dick.. but yea i dont wanna go with her.. i was maybe going to ask another girl, but i was probably just not going to go this year. im only a jr. so next year id go for sure.

so yeah what should i do??? if i do say no i'd obviously have to do it quick..

HELP ME im kind of ****ed.. that was way to bold of her .. i've shown signs even that i dont like her.. and now she put me on the spot.. and i said yes... ahhh.. HELP then afterwords a couple people went up and heard your going with ______. so apprarently she told some people..

ahhhh

HELP ME.. i'll probably send her a message on fb tonight cus i dont know her number. but what should i say?? or should i just go with her?? shes a jr. i dont wanna be a dick.. but i really dont want to go..

ladies.. and guys.. what should i do?? haha and what should i say in my message if i do send her one?? i know how special prom is for girls.. ahhh HELP

Hey man, I know I'm new to this forums, but I was in the same exact boat as you last week. My story is pretty long, but I'll make it short. I asked her out once and she said yes, but two days later she went back with her ex-boyfriend and she never really cared to tell me about it and so she got her cousin to tell me. So, I said "Whatever". Then I guess they broke up and she started thinking about me. So last friday she asked me if she could still go to my prom, so I said yes. And so Monday, I asked her if she's sure and she said "Give me till next week"(which is next week). So thursday was the last day to buy the ticket and I had no idea haha. So I found the confidence to tell her and funny thing is, I only said "I'm sorry I cant take you to prom" got me "Oh it's okay" *slams the door on my face* haha.

What I'm trying to say is, don't be scared to tell her no my man. I'd rather not have a date and try pick up girls at the venue.

Man, if you arent interested in her then what would you gain from going with her.

Yes, you can go if you want the practise of being with a girl and taking a girl "out".

but i cant believe that you are coming here to ask a stranger to make a decision for you whether to go to prom or not with some chic.

Do whatever you think is best for you right now.
You could ask her first out to go to the mall to spend some time with her and see if she grows on ya.
either way, it is no big deal. there are a lot of babes out there that you will like so dont sweat it bro