Ok so this is basically the opposite of what some people here are trying to achieve so strap your jaws tightly so that they don't fall to the ground.

I met this girl 1 week ago, got to know her through a friend of mine who knew i wanted to learn to dance and so did she. Talked for a bit and the dancing school (just to check the school out and see if we clicked) and she seemed overall a nice girl. I'm 22 she's 20 but here comes after date 2 she said was in love with me, through msn for crying out loud.

I'm not in the pu thing for 1 night lays but for the long run and I feel all creeped about her "loving" me SPAM. So I'm trying to figure out a nice way to tell her to slow down / sit down and think about it. I'm afraid that if I don't do that it will be all clingy from the next time we meet up (nothing set yet) and I absolutely do not wan't that.

Point: Normally when that happens it's bye bye or I dump them in my friend zone for as long as they like. But this girl never had a BF and as stated before still comes over as a nice girl whom I hardly know.

I sincerely hope someone can help me with this because I'm having a severe case of brain lock at the moment

um, just be honest and tell her you're not looking for a long term relationship right now. You're still young and like being able to go out and hook-up.


maybe you'll get her to MLTR

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That's fast! but you have to understand that this girl is young and inexperienced. I'm totally sure that she's just infatuated by you. I'm sure she doesn't know what love really is. It's just like when girls like me says, I'm inlove with Brad Pitt! Well its just nothing. Its just to show our admiration.. You don't have to tell her to slow down, make her feel that you're not into the "love" thing as of now. Act as just her friend and know her better. she could be someone worth it.

Completely agree with Kristallnachte, be honest.