There is one girl that I want to pick up but its to hard for me she is the kind of girl who is very avoiding to have a boyfriend in fact she did not encounter to have a boyfriend. what shout I do?

Not really sure why you kids can't seem to chew gum and walk at the same time.

1. You saw this girl. Cool . . . GO AND GAME HER instead of twiddling your thumbs at home. Just gamed a shy little girl myself. For me, what seems to work with shy girls who like to "avoid" is to RUN THEM like little baby sisters. Going out with me is a special treat and if she misses this weekend, she's DONE. I am way to busy with my life to cater to her inverted needs. I go, "So this Friday, we go dancing!" - She just smiles.

2. Well, the above is "chewing gum" . . .so can't you go out for a WALK? Go and get girls' numbers! Go out! Meet people! Dance, kiss! Go out and live life!!! You did 1. Now get the hell out and live life!