Long story leading up to this so i'm not going to bother going into too much detail.

As of now I've been friends with this girl for almost 3 years started liking her a few months back just before I got into the game. Didn't really change much, I learned that some of these things come to me naturally ie. Cocky Funny as well as just being alpha in general (I'm a high school jock, what can I say). Anyway, since I've gotten into the game I've realized that I've made more mistakes then I could count with this girl although there is definitely attraction there for her. She leaves for the summer just after school ends and I want to bring her on as a fuck buddy until then and I know she would do it except this guy just asked her out. She told him she didn't want anything as she was leaving plus her attraction to me (which she didn't say to him but when she told me about it she implied it). She did however accept his dinner date. She then goes on to ask me what she should do so I told her that it's just a date and doesn't actually mean anything.

My question is, should I set a frame where she is expecting it to suck and be awkward (he's the kind of guy who comments on what your saying but doesn't actually have a conversation with you) and then hopefully regardless of what he does she comes out thinking it sucked or tell her it's going to be a great time and hype it up so when it happens she isn't impressed by any of it.

Let me know your opinions ASAP! I'm short of time here!

maybe im missing the point here... but why would you do either?

does your opinion of her date with this dude matter SO much that it would actaully change her perception of the guy when she does go out?

I mean really?

im starting to sniff a little oneitis here... i know you say you only want her as an FB... and if thats the case then who cares if she goes out... and if she gets into a relationship then the FB thing is off.. go get someone else... thats the life of an FB.. they dont traditionally last all that long.

JMT,
Lucky

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150 people are killed every year by Falling Coconuts.... 10 by Shark Attack.

I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.

The only reason I would give her my opinions on it is that she asked and i responded saying it would probably suck since he's a pretty quiet guy who doesn't really have a conversation with you so much as comment on what your saying now and again. She agreed saying that he was kind of awkward and quiet.

I should rephrase my initial question. Should I have tried to control the frame for her date (as I did) or given her the impression that it would be a lot of fun when it is my opinion that it wouldn't be the most thrilling time she's had?

It probably is a bit of a onitice too and I do recognize that but at the same time I recognize that she is leaving and there is nothing long term to come of this.