Okay, eventually it seems that all my ex's come back out of the woodwork. It really depends on the type of relationship and breakup that determines when and how I hear from them again. Sometimes it even feels like I start to hear from several of them at the same time (although I havent quite figured that out yet).

Anyways, this time it is one that I had a hell of a time with. And when I say 'hell of a time' that is both good and bad. She recently contacted me to get her stuff back after our bad breakup. I know she wants to talk and see what has been going on since then.

Normally in this situation I would just keep things light and act as if nothing bad had ever happened. Sometimes it means some good sex with the ex. Sometimes it means just playin it cool. But under no circumstances do I get engaged in talking about all the relationship stuff.

Just curious how you guys handle similar situations.