alright im talkin with this 10 and im trying to actually follow threw with meeting up, i have hung out with her before when she had a bf and we always go back and forth flirting, she broke up with him like 3 months ago and i started talking to her, got her number and i text her once a week or so, she calls me every now and then and we still have good convos and flirt. im trying to get her to meet up with me one on one but it seems i really havent hooked her enough to do that. ive asked her twice and she seems all for it but then i never hear from her.

what should i do?

Hello,

Firstly, good for you that youre talking to her on the phone ans such. Texting is good when youre friends and stuff, but for trying to get a date, its much better to use a phone call.

From what I gather, you simply aked her if she wanted to get together. It is up to you to follow through and set a date, time, and place. She is perhaps not getting back to you because she's waiting for you to tell her what youre going to do when you go out. Take initiative, girls find this a huge turn-on.

It is not a question to whether you hooked her enough. You already have, she agreed to getting together twice. You just need to take initiative. By the sounds you should have no problem conversing throughout the evening.

However, keep your outing casual, like a bistro or a bar with a live band playing. Nothing over the top. You dont want to appear desperate.

Hope this helped,
Good luck

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i was thinking maybe grabing ice cream somthing to that efffect, so basically i just need to realize i have it so far and actually go for it!

Thats a good idea.
Yes, it isnt like you dont have her, you do she agreed that you should get together, but she isnt going to be the one to set up a date. That onus is on you.

Confidence

good luck,

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an update.... took her out tonight it went well, she talked bout her ex a few times i did my best to change the subject and avoid it, she also talked about other guys but it wasnt a bad thing she was saying how they failed in trying to get her, didnt make any moves close the night with a hug and her asking wat i was doing tommrow night.

wat should my next move be? more flirting/ keno?

Hey there,sorry getting back to you so late,i was on vacation. But good for you,by the sounds of it your date went well. Your next move should be to move the setting to a more intimate venue,like a movie and Chinese takeout at your place. This will give you an opportunity to escalate kino and move in for a kiss close. Hope this helped

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Kino escalate for sure! Getting her comfortable with your touch is HUGE! Good luck!