i had a two set.. 2 sisters..
i openend and everything went good.. my wing come up and i introduced him.
he helped me to by distracting the other girl so i could isolate and build kino
after some negs + kino + comfort building and trust i had a couple of IOI's

i told her i wanna do a test so i held my hands up and told her to put her hands on mine. she folded her fingers in mine after slowly get my hands up and down ( still with her fingers between mine. i'm told her: "i am gonna ask but don't say the answer.
hb:hihi okey
me: a number between 0 and 4? three!?
hb: hihih how did you know?
me: a number between 1 and ten? Seven!?
hb: aah this is weird.. bla bla bla
me: on the scale of 1 to ten. how good can you kiss? ( looking in my eyez the whole time )
hb: mmm i don;t know. i think a7
me: proove it


with out waiting for her to answer i wanted to kiss her. but she turned her head away.
( it was my first time i tryd to kiss close )

i didn;t know what to do after that.. how to react.. the girl lost intrest .. so i left with out asking her number..

What IOI's were u receiving? The standard way to tell whether the go for the Kclose is the triangle looks, if when ur talking she looks at your lips then thats a sure fire IOI, infact its one of the strongest for the Kclose.

If things going like this regulary, u may wanna adjust ur routine, as much as I liked ur escalation using the questioning, I can see why it didnt work. You basically pre warned her u were going for a kiss, rather than be alpha and go for it.

You effectively asked her permission mate and thats DLV. You dont need permission, when you see a few IOI's you should go for it.

she was leaning with her hand on my lap, and some more

and when i asked her to put her hands against mine the most do that.. and not fold ther fingers between yours. so i tought that is a good sign to go for it..

I think just that if she does what you asks, i.e. the hand thing, this is more jumping thru a hoop rather than an IOI.

Im not sure how u screwed it that bad if her hand on ur lap. My suggestion is still that by mentioning it u ruined any suspense and tension u had previously built up lol

bro u kiss her, dont ask her to "prove it". i mean, u can but then immideatly go in wothout waiting for an answer. just say "prove it" and move in.
its easier to follow than to lead, which i why if u lead she would have followed.

and ur yes ladder wasn't a yes ladder...