| Ah! The kiss! First off,, get it straight in your mind,,, kissing is a real nice thing for both of you. Get rid of that anxiety. I mean shit,,, we're not robbing banks here. If you don't get the clue,,, you're gonna look real bad.
But when? It's not that difficult. In general you will know. The mood has to be right and the conversation will slow..... Eventually to a standstill. There will be a pause,,, and you'll spot it. Her option is to fill the void with some talk, but she won't, because she wants the kiss. Then you'll know. A secondary sign is her eyes will dialate a bit and her eyes will move from yours to your mouth and back.
It's really easy. You slowly move your head towards hers,,, it's like slow-motion,, at this point she has plenty of time to turn away. But she won't and you then go in for your kiss.
Mystery had a great way of speading things up. He would ask ladies... "do you want me to kiss you?".
That's powerful.
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