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I'm just back from a date with some girl from craigslist. Normally I fail at generating much attraction live, but I usually can at least keep her interested and the conversation flowing smoothly. This time, she had big "what the fuck am I even doing here" look on here face. Every time I managed to get her to laugh, or to get get talking about something she seemed to care about, she would be back to "oh god please end it quick" look in less than a minute.
For all I know it might have been a completely unsalvageable case, maybe her puppy drowned yesterday, or she was having a particularly nasty PMS or whatever other reason there might be for it.
But I think it was mostly lack of skill on my part. So PUA masters, what emergency routines do you use to get girl back on track when a few attempts already failed?
I would've been like, some examples:
1. Is something wrong? You have that look.
2. I'm going to call you (give her a nickname for what she is doing or acting like)! Because... (explain to why you gave her that nickname in a funny way)
3. Hey, look! I don't want to hangout with you if you're gonna act like this.
One--> you're going to find out why she's acting the way she's acting.
Two--> this will open her up if you gave her a funny reason why you gave her that nickname.
Three--> this put you in control and it let's her know your time is valuable and that she should be happy that you took your time to be with her.
If she doesn't change, you gotta be willing to walk away.