Hi guru's...need some advice here.

I am a member of a forum where a lady posted that she was very lonely and was anyone living locally to her. I messaged her back as she literally lives 10 mins away but because of the purpose of the forum and the way she wrote, I assumed she would be old, fat and/or ugly. So I offer to meet her as a friend and told her that I'd just started seeing someone.

Well imagine my surprise when a HB10 answered the door!! My eyes almost pop out.

Anyway, we have met up several times just as friends. She even babysat for me once and stayed in the spare room.

She knows that I am single again and last weekend we went out clubbing. I am struggling to find IOI's from her. I KINO'ed but struggled to escalate this very far. Only got to the holding hands stage with a goodnight hug.

Despite being a HB10, she's actually quite shy so I don't know whether the lack of multiple IOI's means "not interested" or scared. I do notice certain ones like playing with hair. When I "accidentally" rest my arm on her legs when sitting on the couch she doesn't move away etc.

Any suggestions on how I can find out if she's only interested in friends or possibly more?

Thanks

Hmm ok so what was the purpose of the post? She wants a friend, wants someone to hang out with.. or wants sex?
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ok... looking a little better, did she ever say no or stop or pull away??? if not then your not escalating
OK...

heres my thoughts... one.. quite looking for IOI's your probably missing them... it sounds like you could have something but your in danger of running out of time.

arm on legs and she doesnt move is a pretty decent compliance test... try taking her hand and putting it on your leg.. if she doesnt move it away... there you go...

watch for the triangle gaze.. move in, and kiss her... and just go from there...
if you dont start really pushing she is gonna figure that your just gonna be friends.

JMT,
Lucky

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