So most guys know when they hit the friend zone or are on their way, Allot of guys are also happy to actually just be friends with the girl just to have them in their lives, the beginning of oneitis.

Im now thinking of ways for people to get out of the friend zone and thought of this -

You tell the girl your into her, dont wanna just be friends you wanna be with her, if she dont feel the same then you tell her you wanna move on with someone else and dont want to be friends with her. Im guessing her reaction would at first be like ok fuck you. But then if she did value you as a friend shes gonna start missing you and think ok maybe we could make a go at it and get back in touch, or she really says fuck you and moves on, so what? you move on too, plenty more out there.

I think this would work, its a 50/50 and i guess why allot of guys are not doing it is because they are scared of losing the girl totally and always hanging onto that tiny bit of hope that they might one day get out of the friend zone. The way i see it is theres only one way to get out of it, you have to get yourself out of it and take a big gamble. It either pays off or it doesnt and you meet someone else. No big deal right?

Whats your views on it?

Always be willing to lose the set.

In my opinion, in a strong frame tell her what you want. Many times it's not that they aren't into you, it's just that they, for whatever reason, can't commit to anything.

For example, me. I was talking to this chick recently and she hit me with the, "We can be friends" line. I looked at her with a deadpan face, "We've been talking for a couple of weeks now, I'm going to be honest, I'm into you. I'm not talking to you so that we can be pals, I've got enough friends." I closed her about an hour later. We're not "dating" but now it's turning into a regular FWB situation.

Always be willing to lose the set. Be willing to walk away. On the other hand, say exactly what you want, clearly and definitively. If she walks away, she's walking away from a strong, intelligent, mature man.

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