ok so there's this girl. haha
she's in one of my classes. and she sits with me along with 2 other people. the other people are guys. they are both my friends and they both have girlfriends so i'm not worried about them cockblocking me or nothing. we are always are cracking jokes and laughing at each other. She's kinda shy and just laughs along but doesn't usually say anything and i know she looks at me like crazy during class, and it's kinda made me creepy/nervous to ask her out. So i kinda added her on facebook and she's starting to talk to me. like saying stuff i don't expect her to say. so it seems as if she's more open on facebook. should i keep talking to her on facebook and then keep continuting in person or is facebook going to fuck this whole thing up?
also i'll probably get her number soon so feel free to give me some date ideas. lol

alright face book isn't bad wtf am i saying lol


yes it is you see her in person! talking on face book yeah she might say all these things but it would be really awkward in person if all you shared was conversations over face book
because online anyone can be whoever they want (whether its the funny/cocky guy
the smooth ladies man, or the hot sexy girl) just because theres no actual conversation
just because there this way online doesn't mean it will carry over in person all the time
so i recommenced keeping face book convo going BUT a majority of your interactions with her when possible should be in person it allows you guys to ACTUALLY get to know each other


as for dates keep it fun and different
so many guys go for boring dinner and a movie
both are lame because at dinner everyone's thinking" do i got something on my face are they staring at me" lol
and at a movie you have to be quiet the whole time

i recommend doing something like go get ice cream and take a walk
i think some of the best dates i had was where i took the girl to chuck-e-cheese
and we played laser tag and the lil games lol also once me and this girl went bought smore's and chilled on the beach

just do something different and fun!!!
even if you have to do the movie
take a walk and talk before the movie or do something so you can build the attraction
then while you guys are siiting in the movie
and you guys are silent for like an hour or two
she will be DYING to talk to you
becasue here she was talking to this attractive guy and she was so turned on by what they were doing before the movie
and now she cant talk because there in a place where you have to be silent! its a tease now which is really turning her on lol

try some of those out id love to hear how it all goes

p.s. i love to surprise girls with these dates as well

like when i call them up i tell them we are going out to eat
you know there like" oh great another one of those dates"
then when you pick her up and go to your local grocery store and pick out sandwich makings and smore makings and go have a picnic you stand out from every guy and she is so shocked that shes going on a fun date like this haha its money!

well theres my input

hope some if not all of this helped


-hatch

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