hey all..
i need a hand... first off there is a girl, i met her today and found her to be preaty kool. however we were stationed at different posts and my mate was stationed with her for the whole day! so sure enough i cracked onto her early in the morning but then we split and then i saw her one more time at lunch and didn't get to see her after that. basically my mate got her number and pulled everything he had AFC style to get her. anyway he tells me that i am too late when i finally get her number and that he has already got her!
Basically the cunt stole her... i need to win her back before it is too late! please any advice you can give the best parts of your games i need to focus them all on this girl i am already 10 hours behind this other bloke and for the sake of everyone i need this not to fail!

the best parts of your game please post them here and defend the PUA society's honour!

Try this:

First of all I would suggest an immediate frame shift...

She was not stolen from you, she is not his, she is not anyones.

She is yours for the gaming and you <i>know</i> she wants you bad. Can you feel it now?.... Good....

Since you got the number, call her, or just talk to her when you see her at work, and tell her to come out with you for tea later on. Its important that you <i>tell</i> her, not ask her to. Asking, suggesting, imploring and such are approval seeking moves, they lower value and give power to the woman.

Getting a date as a command shows that you are in control of the situation, and you can feel it. Keep it that way. When you get her alone with you, attract, build comfort, seduce. 1 on 1 its easier to do kino escalation cus there's no interference from your/her friends. Change venues between phases if possible ex: take her to a park and then a store, a pier, your house... This creates time distortion; makes it feel like you know each other a lot better. She'll feel more ready and open to sexual experience with you, whether its making out or a !close.

why are you and your friend even competing?

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Id like to reiterate as above why compete with a friend?

If ur sucessfull and ur mate is AFC he probably wont talk to u.... if hes PUA then you will prob fuck his game up.

Bro's before hoes mate, every1 knows that. Ive had AFC mates call me out on cracking onto girls they like and Ive back down. Not because they told me to, because I value my friendships more than any piece of pussy u cud put in front of me.

When alls said and done ur friends hold u up when u cant carry urself, if u burn those bridges ur destined for a lonely life.

Its not good social proof buring ur mates at every oppurtunity and if ur friend as an AFC has a genuine interest in this girl, then as a PUA u shud get over it n get on. You dont sound like ur in love with the girl so hy u wanna go screw ur mate like that?

The longer I write the more im infuriated with this whole post.

yeah honestly man
i was in the same type of situation with one of my best friends
he hooks up with this HB9 that hes pretty much obssessed over
and i just be myself and she always comes onto me
the sad thing is she only comes onto him when theyre both drunk
she comes onto me when shes drunk or sober
and when my friend is sober he says he doesnt care and always teases me about flirting with her
and i never TRIED to game her
i try to ignore her but it makes her want me more
and this girl is fuckin hott too
so one night we were drinkin at my apartment and shes all over me, and i keep walking away, and my friend comes up to me and says if i do it one more time he will beat my ass
and i could take him even thought he buff as hell
but hes like my best friend
and when he was sober i told him i wasnt doing anything

i could have had that girl in my bed with the snap of my fingers but i value our friendship wayyy more than some hott babe
theres so many more
if you could talk it out with your friend and if hes not totally into her and just wants some ass, then maybe u guys can compete
but if he really wants this girl, hes your friend, dont let an everlasting friendship die out because of a piece of ass

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because this guy started when i was halfway through my routine just because i wasn't there! he stole my set!
so even if your friends had stolen the girl you were trying to hit on in the first place you are telling me you would just give up and let it slide?
if he had have done it to my face i would be kool with it cause the better man obviously won but he did it behind my back and undid everything that i had done and as someone said bro's before hoes.why am i supposed to follow the code but he is exempt

I think you can see where everyone is going with this, you mis-lead us by saying he is a friend. You don't do that to a "Friend". Now, if he is a co-worker and don't give a sh!t if you lose him as a friend or worse off, he becomes embarrased by losing this girl to you, you need to think of the outcome...will he fight you out of spite? Will he mess with your car to get back at you?

One thing to keep in mind...you never want to upset a person you work with, guy or girl...I have a story for both...

Chick story - A friend of mine got this guy fired because he gamed her, she was a hot chick (I was LJBF with her older sis) on her second day at Subway...He did her in the back inside the fridge...Next to the veggies as I was told!!!"Lol" Next day he was fired due to sexual harrasment. Why? She was embarrased and afraid he would tell the guys at work.

Dude Story - A good friend of mine got caught talking about the assistant managers GF...We didnt know she was at the time and he went along with it. He later made him a "Special" pizza...I won't go into detail but it was bad. Not PUA recommended stories but Im sure you know that! LOL

Never-the-less, what is it that you want? Do you care that you lose this guy as a what-ever-he-is? or Plug this girl and then see what happens?

If you want to game this girl, you need a plan. You already have her number, this was mentioned to you already, ask her to tag along with you somewhere cool.

Have some cool routines to DHV...I.e the cube, photo graphic memory I highly recommend, 5-8 min to show and then another maybe 20 to show but will show some very cool value, astrology reads are chick crack. Once you get her hooked into knowing that you both have a sense of connection, you may have some good times ahead of you.

Hope that helps some.

manofheart, what he meant was FUCKING TALK TO YOUR FRIEND

find out what the real status is on his end of getting her. Is he legitmately into her? if not, then talk about making it a competition, or something. if he's into her, find someone else.

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