I'll try to be brief though it cannot probably cover all the important points. Well, yesterday I went out with a few friends. First we went to a restaurant to have some meal. There was a set of 6 girls right next to our table. Just before we left, I had opened them and offered to come to the same bar/dance club we were heading to. They were actually pretty nice and said maybe yes. And they came. I met one of the girls (target) alone on her way from the toilet. We started to chat and then I joined the rest of the girls - her friends. I think I did pretty much good. I met all the girls and amused all of them. They were laughing and willing to talk to me. I liked it. Afterwards I apologized that I had to get back to my friends. After some time I managed to meet and isolate the target alone and I did. We played a table football against a random couple and had really good time. I went kino, she didn't mind, actually I could feel she enjoyed it. We won several maches and after each we gave a hug each other. After the last game I tried to kiss her instead of a hug, but she pushed me against her and refused. It was embarassing. After a while, I joined my friends again and was intending to meet her again after a while and at least number-close her. I was very careful to not leting her go home before that. In spite of that, I was searching for her later but she was already gone. She had to manage it somehow to avoid me cuz I was near the entrance. It happens to me very often. WHY!!!!???? Was I too rushy?So much fucking energy and effort lost again.

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i'd say you haven't shown that much rapport to make her feel comfortable.. didn't build enough attraction so she could actually consider to kiss you... and what kind of kino did you do? (holding her by the shoulders ain't nothin compare to what you were about to do).. you needed to build those.. and it seems that you jumped a couple of steps.. and in my opinion.. i say you were diggin yourself towards the LJBF zone and did not even know about it.. My 2 cents...

What kino did I do: first I holded her around her shoulders as you said but later around her waist, pulling her towards me from time to time. She seemed to be confortable with it. I admit the kiss-attempt was too rushy, I skipped a few steps, but I just really wanted to do it, I couldn't wait! And that's my problem. I have the balls but I just have to learn to be more organised. But what I don't understand is your assumption of digging towards the LJBF zone. From what do you conclude it?

Hey, even you messed up with the kiss, so what?
Instead of being embarrassed, you could laughed and made a joke about being clumsy. "Maybe I should watch more James Bond movies, so I can be smooth."
Poking fun at yourself, or her, is always a good way to smooth out an awkward situation.

Juice makes a good point, if you mess up turn it into a situation you can control, i.e making fun of yourself. As long as you are in control there is nothing to be embarrassed about.

Once in gym class, i was running towards home base in kickball, I slid home, stood up and my pants fell down. There I was in my tighty whities with tons of hot girls staring at me laughing, so i picked up my pants and said "That is the last time I rob a fatter person for their belt, this shit just isnt giving me the right support"

Then I pulled my pants up and sat down, slapped some guys hands and called it day.

As for your kino and kissing, I would keep the energy you have, and next time you go to hug a girl, hug her, pull back and kiss her on the cheek or the forehead and say you are so adorable. This, works like a charm