I wasn't actively looking for it, but I'm emailing with one that found me on Craigslist. I think I'll go for it out of curiosity if nothing else. Except that I will definitely blow it up, as all the little seduction skills I might have are targeted at girls that could have been her daughter.

Any special hints?

If she is openly looking for an affair there are a few things that are going on here

shes obviously not happy with her marriage, either emotionally or sexually
or her and her husband both go around sleeping with other people and neither one of them cares

OR shes done with the marriage but keeping it together for appearances/money/the kids

Regardless of the reason, there in lies one common factor, she wants to be fucked. And you my friend are about to be the lucky man. I would suggest keeping your same routines, as long as they aren't too juvenile. But keep in mind, older women want to feel young again. If you can make her laugh, feel special, and feel like shes having a good time, you are in there.

Key things
Be sensual with your kino as well as playfull
A few overly cheesy/goofy jokes will do wonders as long as they are told AS silly goofy jokes and not actually meant to be funny. They are funny because they are not funny.
Dont mention her husban unless she brings it up, if she does try not to fall into that trap, tell her when she's with you, she's with you.

My own personal (and current) experience:

If you manage to get involved with this married woman, be VERY careful not to tease her in ways that will set a guilty pang.

I've got a married executive woman and we've been texting back and forth since we first met, we're flirting and keeping our interest alive over the long term between times that we can meet. This is a fun, and blunt woman and is very attractive, I'd give her an HB8. She travels for business a lot and one time I made the txt comment jokingly "I bet you have a man in every port!". She got silent for a long while then texted me "You hurt my feelings". I was forced to apologize to her, which nearly ruined me with her. I did what I could to not kill her with apology, and DLV while smoothing it over -all over text lol. Painful and tricky experience but I fixed it. Don't put yourself through that, go easy on the negs and steer CLEAR and FAR away from anything dealing with topics regarding the hubby and her straying.

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Great stuff impuls, I think you managed to help me as well with that story, good luck with her as well

The best thing you can do for yourself is to shower well, brush your teeth, comb your hair, pack a few condoms just in case, and show up.

Don't try to pull any lines. You're clearly mismatched. The example Impuls mentioned is only one of many ways that a young man can ruin his chances to get his pee pee wet with an older woman. She set out looking for you. You just go over there and be yourself. Shutting up in this case and just going with the flow is your best game.