How would i approach this hb8.5 at school (college)? We don't know each other at all, but we've crossed paths a couple of times this semester. I don't see her much probably like once or twice a week. Well today (4/8/09), I was walking to class, was about to be late, and I saw her and we were going through the same door but on opposite sides, I got to the door first and opened it and held it for her to let her through. She said something like "sorry or my bad" I can't really remember was about to be late for class lol. And we just continued to where ever we needed to go. As far as I know, we don't have a mutual friend, and uh I can't really think of anything else on the situation to make it more clear as to how the situation is.

just approach her man, if you dont know any of her friends you have nothing to lose. Just show confidence and she should be like wow a guy thats talking to me with confidence, perfect candidate for PU. Just do it. I honestly gotta say you should have already, ive started living by the 3 second rule in almost all cases (only if its inappropriate will i break it) and you should too. Next time you see her JUST DO IT. Tell us how it goes man

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-moony

Just do some opener on her (probably a day one cz it's school: "Do you know where this room is?"), and then transition to direct game with some good line ("I really dont care, I just wanted to talk to you, what are the chances of that eh?" cz she is a single set, you don't have to disqualify yourself too much) and just continue with your normal game or you can just blank her out by just leaving: "oh I gotta go, my class starts soon I ll c you around", and just greet her next time you see her. ??/

V3nu

also last week at school i was walking to class and i just happened to see her, i walked through the "courtyard" i guess you can call it and she was walking from the parking lot. whenever i got to the hallway i was ahead of her, she passed me up as we were nearing the door into the building and i was behind her. she brushed her hair whenever she opened the door, is that considered an IOI? just making sure.

Just approach her already !!! hahaha
I'm feeling like you are getting cut up in AA man, and that can affect you, especially if you see her often.

That happened to me like two years ago, not knowing how to overcome AA, I saw a girl I liked everyday for da whole semester and I ended up having one-itis, not even knowing her name :S
But at least it didn't affect me that much, cz at the last day of the semester, I said some sort of situational opener (not knowing PUA) and we just started talking, btw that last day I was so depressed cz I lost all hope to even knowing her name ... :S

So yah just GET OVER YOUR AA and say something so the same thing does NOT happen to you or the AA affects you in some other way

V3nu

lol i can't i didnt have school today being for it being good friday, i would only see her monday wednesday or fridays since i have the most classes that day tuesday and thursday i have one class and go home right afterwards, so next week for sure! lol

Tell how it went next week

V3nu

i was reading about the shy opener in a thread and i was just wondering if i can use it by saying "are you shy or something, she answers, well ive seen you around campus all semester and you havent say hi once?" just tryna get some more ideas lol

i like that shy opener
when you walk by her say "hi, i always see you when i walk to this class and i need to know...are you shy? because you never say hi to me but you always look" and then smile.

or even if you cant work up the nerve to say all of that, just say hi
and keep saying hi when you walk by
soon enough she will see you at a party or somewhere different and she may even open you or worse case you will have an easy open cuz you guys say hi to eachother when you walk by

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