I'm tired of not being the suductive guy I could be. I see oppritunity around me all the time; but I dont know wtf to say or how to go about igniteing it.
I dont want to pay 3000 dollars when theres a community of people working together to get this shit right.
I simply want someone who knows how to help me achieve my goals.

HELLO IS THERE ANYBODY OUT THERE?

Tell me wtf I have to do. I have no trouble talking to girls, when I have something to say to them; however too often I have nothing to say to them and feel bad about it. Do I lack conversational skills? Do I lack a life worth talking about? It almost seems like I simply lack purpose. I'm trying to talk with girls I dont give a shit about and I got nothing to say. I try to talk to girls I'd like to know better/fuck the shit out of... and still have nothing to say. I'd much rather not say some retarded shpeil that 5000 other douchebags have said in the last 24 hrs...No... I want to be able to come up with interesting things for myself and honor her ears, by being the 1st to hear them.

I'm at a loss as to how I can frame myself in such a way to be able to do these things. Maybe I'm wording my problem incorrectly but seriously if anyone has any Idea what I'm talking about, any solution to my woes, I'd like to hear it.

dude...approach anxiety sucks balls, everyone still gets it
honestly. you dont have to spend 3000 dollars
get "Rules of the Game" by Style (Neil Strauss)
it has different tasks for you to complete and it helps
even read his book "The Game" and really think about what he says in it and what he does and its also a great story
theres so much you can do for under 100 dollars
it just takes practice and reading
but the number one thing is get rid of approach anxiety
when you are walking by women and they look you in the eye, look them back and smile and if they dont look away and just quietly but confidently give them a hi while smiling
that will give you a little more confidence because most people will say hi back
itll get ur confidence and approaching up

and second of all, dont make a big deal when you feel that you cant do something because nothing really is a big deal
just do it, embarassment is only within yourself
you get rejected, big deal, you can try and keep going or find another woman worth talking to

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just have fun and you will never be dissapointed

ever think to just browse the forums?

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