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I took a look at the book "The Game" and been reading this forum for the past week. I'm just shocked at the amount of losers giving each other advices on how to reply to a text message and shit. lol Only brown dudes around me read this book really, and I thought it was teaching brown men to chop white girls or something.
Anyhow, this is what you do. Go the gym,pump iron(so you are a strong alpha dog), act like you re the shit even if you dont really think you are and wherever you go just have your fun. Being the alpha dog is the key. well I couldn't possibly tell you guys how to be an alpha dog by typing a few sentences. But that's what you gotta be. If you arent the alpha dog in a group of people,change the group of people you hang with! and dont think about what the girls gonna think about you etc. when you approach them, tons of fucking fishes in the sea. Quit wasting your time thinking "Ohhh should i do thissss thatttt" and get out there.
This guy actually tells the truth. Only for some people, becoming the "alpha dog" is not that easy.
I repeat, this guy has no idea what an alpha is, and clearly you do neither by agreeing with him.
An Alpha is a leader, it's every bit as compassionate as it is dominant, it's got everything to do with empathy and looking out for others, and almost nothing to do with.
"I'm the man, I don't care about you, their are plenty of others who want to hang out with me, I don't need you, I WORK OUT HARDCORE!!!! I AM THE SHIT"
That's just a testosterone pumped 21 year old shit; who 15 years from now will have no real job, no girlfriend, most of his friends will have grown up and stopped hanging out with him after they saw him naked in his lounge hi fiving himself after a "tottaly awesome" round of guitar hero; thus realising that although he lives in a delusional dreamworld of "rockstardom and awesomesauce" his life sucks and no one realistically wants to hang out with him.
He is infact nothing more than an arrogant loser who thinks, "he is the shit"
Theirs a differnece between an insecure retard who forces his view of "I ROCKZORZ" onto everyone he comes across, while simultaneously acting like no one else matters to him; and some one who is an alpha. Someone secure, who understands balance, has no need for AMOG wars becuase to be involved in that would be to admit that he has to fight for dominance.
Someone who just does and people follow, rather than someone who demands that others follow, in order to gratify his wavering self belief that people actually respect him.
Frankly the O.P. seems to have Alpha confused with the old view of "douchebag" in the niceguy-asshole paradigm. Which hopefully we have all grown out of.
However if you still think of the aforementioned behaviour as attractive, I don't see why I can't sink your intellegence down into ham handed black and white definitions of an ultimatly intricate subject such as that of the male psyche.
I mean REALLY, on what unprecidented scale do you need to be so cuntish as to beleive that what the O.P. has described is an alpha, now granted not everyone understands this, but you two have to have spent SOME time in the game, I can give some leeway to the O.P. seeing as his knowledge extends to "the game" which in itself is a biased and not entirely correct source to learn PU from. So I can at least blame his uneducated stab at PU on his aptitude to dive head first into topics which he clearly knows nothing about.
UGH! I don't even know why I'm so riled by this, I thought the idea of an alpha male not being a jock/complete cunt was dealt with a while ago. Me and Madals were thinking of doing a Living Attraction webinar on alpha males, I wasn't so sure as I felt the idea of the alpha male being more than an affliction T shirt knob-head had been done to death.
Now granted the O.P. has not gone into depth of his views of an alpha male, and I have assumed alot of his stance, but the thought process goes like this..
"Hey I'm not alpha, maybe I should change my friends that way I can blame external factors on my social status rather than take responsibility for my failings, But how can I ensure my friends will like me? Oh I know, rather than show myself properly I'll throw up a mirage of confidence, that way I don't need to worry about building "real" confidence and no one will be the wiser! Now finally I have worried to much about others and how they matter to me, clearly I'm in a pickle, I need to focus on me, becuase if I don't then I'm going to fall apart, how would I survive otherwise?"
If you need to know what I was doing their "Mr the shit" I was just pointing out to you how everything you have listed about becoming an alpha male amounts to the common behaviours of someone who is insecure.
So clearly the topic does needs covering.
/rant
*Remove "cox" face*