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I decided exactly how my perfect partner had to be based on all the possitive traits of previous partners I liked and then by finding a girl without the major negative points.
So for me,
Possitive - Lively, charasmatic, talkative, opionated but not stubborn, looks after her appearance, is socially adept, has a stong personality, is quiet happy with nights in or nights out, has her own social circle, sexually adventurous, confident in her own skin, etc.
Neggative - Possesiveness, jealousy, irate behaviour, mood swings, depressive nature, never satisfied, sexually timid, requiring confirmation of love, needs physical gifts to represent emotional commitment....
Basically after a while I decided what I hated bout my ex's and what I loved about them, and finally I found a girl who actually ticks off the majority of my specs.
There is no perfect woman, as there is no perfect man, you just have to figure out which things you can put up with to be with the girl, the ones I listed above I deffinatly could not live with and my girl doesnt possess any of those qualities.
The Highlander tag line says it best "in the end there can be only one" lol
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