EDIT: Alright so no one seems to be able to help me with this situation. Alright then, I'll take matters into my own hands.


First topic after my introduction. Hopefully you guys can help.

Alright so there's this girl working at a Tim Horton's. Thing is, she's a lesbian. At least, she's bi. Reason she's with girls now is that guys hurt her too much in the past. She still has sex with guys from time to time, or so I've heard. But she tries to convince everyone that she's a complete lesbian. Works on everyone except me.

So thing is she never showed interest until recently. I began making out with another employee there, go out to clubs and stuff with her. Now thing is, the lesbian likes being in the spotlight, so I think that made her jealous, because she keeps trying to get my attention.

Heck, I can see it in her eyes that she wants something from me. Sometimes though it seems to vanish, and honestly I'm completely at loss as to what to do to get her. Frankly I've been hoping to get her instead of the other employee. She's just way more unique.

For those interested in more details, I can add info on how my last two visits to the Tim Horton's went. If you're patient enough to read through this, you're awesome, and thanks.

Alright so day one:

-The lesbian (let's call her Lesbonator) expects me to chat with her as always, since she's the one taking care of customers while the other girl (Let's call her KissyMiss) is doing some other random stuff. Instead of talking to Lesbonator, I just say hi and go chat with other girl. I go chill with pals and when I come back to the counter, Lesbonator goes like ''I suppose it's not me you want to talk to.'' Acting jealous jokingly.

- When I talk to KissyMissy, Lesbonator always tries to get in the conversation and keeps eye contact with me. She laughs when I neg her and roleplays a bit. When I ask if KissyMiss can take a 5 minute break so we can go chill outside, she's reluctant (She's higher graded than KissyMiss so she decides) and usually ends up saying yes, only after groping the girl a bit and faking french-kissing her. BTW I'm quite sure that she isn't into the other girl.

- As I said goodbye at the end of the night, Lesbonator tried to keep the conversation going with me. It was just me and her, no KissyMiss. We did some really light kino (Handslapped, hand on shoulder for a second.)

Day two

- Again, lesbonator tries to get my attention while I talk to KissyMiss. Heck, she even steps in front of her to get my attention.

- She teases me, saying that she dislikes my hair. I tease back at one point, telling her a joke about her boobs being small. It was related to a subject she had undertaken. She laughed. She went to the back in the kitchen and markered on a board 'Thomas (me) has bad hair.' I asked for permission by the other girl to go to the kitchen, she said yeah. So I go at the back and Lesbonator is there. So she randomly jokes 'Oh we're alone in the back, come do me quick!' which is her kind of comedy. So I start markering that she has small boobs on the board, and as I do so she mentions something about her breasts, can't remember what, and starts rubbing them on me trying to make me look at them, going like ''Look! Look!'' I said that I was doing something much more entertaining than looking at her boobs. She laughed. I also kinoed slightly, pushing her on the shoulder for I can't remember the reason. She then tried to make me trip as I headed back to the front.

Now the thing is, to you guys this might seem all clear and simple, but to me, all the attention she's giving is weird. I mean, I've been going to that place for coffee for more than two years, and I've never expected that something would work out with her, since she's a 'lesbian'.

I have been showing DHV a lot, and I sure don't act needy. So I don't know.