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| Ezo | PostPosted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 12:03 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sun Nov 11, 2007 2:04 pm Posts: 4238 | | There have been some misconceptions of negs and disqualifications... Many of the people out there starting out understand the concept of negging, or at least think that they do. It is a new way of thinking and they use it all the time. I constantly see things like, I overnegged, she told me I was rude, negged to hard, despite negs she did not open up... etc etc.
A neg is only useful if you have a bitchshield to disarm or want to make sure that she does not think of you as a potential suitor initially. In many cases you will not need to neg. Neg theory was developed for girls of very high value, SHBs. Usually, negs are overkill. Compare this to the false disqualification. This is a concept that shows that you are not too interested. She has no higher value than you give her. A neg brings down her value and a disqualification keeps it but shows that you do not really care since you also have higher value.
A disqualification shows the willingness to walk away, you have choices.
After having achieved a certain level of inner game and attitude you do not even need this, your entire personality radiates the fact that you have choices and do not need her. She is welcome to hang around if she likes to but will not cry if she wont.
Train yourselves to not see all girls as potential mates, rather opportunities to practice, meet new people, talk. In the rare cases when you meet someone who is worthy of your attention you may take it to the next level. Realize this and you can forget about negging and disqualifications.
Ezo
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| fealinlucky | PostPosted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 1:48 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Wed Dec 10, 2008 4:14 pm Posts: 201 | | Thanks for Posting this Ezo,
If ive read it once, Ive read it a hundred times...
Well thought out,
Lucky _________________ 150 people are killed every year by Falling Coconuts.... 10 by Shark Attack.
I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.
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| JSmooth | PostPosted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 9:09 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sat Oct 20, 2007 6:58 pm Posts: 5702 Location: Nashville |
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| fealinlucky | PostPosted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 9:12 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Wed Dec 10, 2008 4:14 pm Posts: 201 | | seriously j
im so jealous of that avatar....
=) _________________ 150 people are killed every year by Falling Coconuts.... 10 by Shark Attack.
I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.
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