This babe at work seemed really intersted and so seeing her near the beach I said that we should have a coffee and she gave me her number.
anyway, i saw her on Sat and said that i would call.
texted today this afternoon if she wanted to have a coffee tomorrow and still hasn't called or sent me a message. i realise the futility of sending another lame message. saying did you receive my message? or whatever but it really does leave youi wondering why women are such fucking flakes.
Jesus!! this is just one failure after another- it really does leave you feeling more and more of a loser. anyway...
must keep up my positive attitude.
atb

Without knowing the specifics its hard to give you a solid reason why... but USUALLY a woman flakes because not enouph comfort has been built. She was into you enouph to give you her number but in the "light of tomorrow" she really doesnt know anything about you... and just blows it off.

Now a second thought as I read your message...
1) when was the coffee meet to take place?
2) where was it to take place?

Did you set that up when she said.. "yeah id love to do coffee sometime"

If not, thats a big reason... Take charge and be a little alpha, name the time and place, get a commitment out of her and she is more likely to show.

JMT,
Lucky

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150 people are killed every year by Falling Coconuts.... 10 by Shark Attack.

I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.

I have to admit that I didn't include the time or place when I got her number. To be honest I have 't been having too much luck so when suddenly she gave me her card I was like great I will call you and a little surprised.
Next time I must be more on the ball and sort something out there and then.
For now I suppose that I have blown it with the chic and should once again turn to other babes more deserving of my attentions.
Thanks buddy

Yeah sometimes thats how it goes =)

But now you know... and knowing is half the battle =)

JMT,
Lucky

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150 people are killed every year by Falling Coconuts.... 10 by Shark Attack.

I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.