| Going to try not to let blue balls get the best of me in this post but here it goes.
So my wingman points me to his waitress at a place the other night. I immediately start gaming her, getting her number and actually meeting her spontaneously at 1AM the other night. I get tons of IOIs from the girl... enough IOIs that I knew I could be in total control over the K-Close.
I took control of this by going into kiss, but pulling back and giving her a hug. Then I told her I was tired and had to get home.
The next night we talk on the phone since I was too busy to come see her. I get to know her a little and even dabbled a little bit into sex talk.
Today my wing and his girl invite her over to their place. I meet up with them and we have a decent time joking around together. I still receive a ton IOIs... I'm feeling ITS ON at this point, and the only thing to do is get her alone to F-close.
While we're chilling, my wing strategically gives us a moment alone. She starts telling me how "great" it is to be single over the summer since its going to be here soon. She also mentions she just got out of a bad breakup and that she wants to be single for a while. I play along and agree that being single over the summer is a really awesome thing and that I've had a lot of fun. I figure she is LJBF'ing me at this point--I'm okay with at this point.
After she does this, she asks me to take her back to her dorm. I agree since I'm heading that way anyway and I don't want it to seem like because of this LJBF, that I'm reacting in needy, negative way.
On the car ride back to her dorm, we hold hands, and she even puts our hands practically on her crotch. I figure I'm in the presence of girl who knows how to run push-pull just as good as I do. At this point, I'm guessing ITS ON again.
We get to her dorm, she tells me to come in. Instantly she wants me in bed with her and tells me that she is really up for some cuddling right now. We go through the motions and do some fucking insane soul staring. This girl can hold eye contact like a bitch, and isn't phased by it the least bit.
We get interruptions because at this all girls dorm, the door has to be left so that it can be pushed open.. It goes like this for about two hours: dry humping and kissing for a short bit and she'll pull back and freeze me out for a few seconds, I get her drift after a few times and decide to be the one who'll pull the freeze outs from now on. I'll get eating out of my hand sexually, and then pull back, and get up and walk around.
Eventually she tells me I have to go because she has stuff to do. I oblige and remind her that she is keeping me from doing laundry at the moment and that I believe I have a friend coming over tonight for a few (which I didn't). Its at this point that she tells me that she is extremely sexually attracted to me, but not attracted to me in relationship sense.
I feel like I'm LJBF'ed again. What the fuck? I tell my wing this on the way home and he texts her after figuring this is just a shit test. She tells him this:
Her to my wing:
Not like that. I mean's he cool but not what I'm looking for. I told him that. I'm just not into him like that line of thing. Idk how to explain it. But I tried to... He knows I just wanna be friends.
Another text from her to my wing:
Idk, just my gut feeling. There's just somethings about him I really don't like, but its not like I don't wanna be his friend cause he's definitely really nice and all that. I really just not attracted to him in relationship kinda way.
Another text from her to my wing:
I'm not really doubtin anything, I just really wanna stay single after everything I just went through. I just wanna have fun without getting attached and vice versa.
Another text from her to my wing:
I know I'm a bit stand offish and I tend to push people away. Idk I haven't really said that he doesn't have a shot. I mean making out and playing around doesn't mean he has no chance. LOL.
Another text from her to my wing:
No I mean its not like I don't like him, its just that I'm not ready and just wanna be single and friends for now, and maybe, no promises but maybe one day, something.
And.. hold on, she just sent me a text:
Thanks for coming over, and driving me and everything. I'm glad we finally got to cuddle. Hope you haven't forgot about calling me....
What the fuck is it with this girl? Now mind you, I'm in a LTR on the side. My goal for this pickup is to have this girl there and ready for me when I'm not with my LTR. How can I get this done guys without her following through with that LJBF bullshit?
Also, just getting told that while me and my wing were away from the group, she told my wing's girl that she thinks that I'm just out to get laid. How do I alter this frame?
Need some advice ASAP before I fuck it up. Come on guys.
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