So this girl i've been hooking up with for a couple weeks cancels on me then sends me an email saying she wants more then just ze sex and if thats all we are she "doesnt know if this is going to work out" and wants to know what I think. No big deal really, I don't want to date her because shes 10 years older then me... so is it just time to let it go or is this some kind of shit test or what? Last time we got together she was pretty gung ho about this just sex thing. I'm thinking its time to end it.... which is a shame because shes awesome and the age thing is sexy, I just cant do the long term thing with her. Ideas?

She is falling for you, and she is questioning what your relationship breaks down to, if its just a hook up buddy then she doesn't want to see you anymore, shes afraid of getting attached, then hurt,

If you want to like her i would say, "I like you, and i want to continue seeing you, how about we take it slow" and just keep on doing what your doing, this is making you in control

Its definitely a shit test.

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