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PostPosted: Sun Mar 29, 2009 11:49 pm 
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This past weekend I got a ton of field experience, had an awesome time working on socializing with guys and girls, and blew a friendship/possible relationship. Drinking underscored quite a bit of that.

Drinking a little bit helped me open a two-set sucessfully. Drinking too much helped me shoot myself down the second night. To be fair, it was in an environment in which everyone is drinking. However, if one's goal is to take home the hot girl, then that needs to be the mission, and not proving how many shots you can hit or winning beer pong.

It's not just that you find it difficult to walk straight after a bit, it's that any personal issues you have are much more likely to be obvious once you hit a certain level of wasted. And being PUA is about self-expression and control, at least in my very short experience.

So watch your asses when you're partying and drinking; especially if you're working on inner game issues.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 6:18 pm 
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Never drink and sarge :)

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 7:35 pm 
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I've got Approach Anxiety issues and I decided to stop drinking completely. I've lost lots of valuable items, got in stupid fights, have done some vandalism (nothing huge but still it got me into trouble also), broken arms ..... Crazy, I can only be glad I'm still alive seriously.

The drinking is because of my Approach Anxiety (which is getting a little better but nothing exceptionnal still) but I know drinking will only get me into trouble.

Fact is , when I drink I can get very funny (very arrogant-funny too and sometimes really over the top) but I often get too far waste every opportunity I created with hot girls. Some attractive younger girl actually asked me to get her a drink, but she seemed not like a bitch who just wanted a drink she really looked like someone who wanted to meet me and I just said "NO". She did the little dog eyes and I said "that won't work on me". I was so arrogant so at the same time, I blow off sarges or type of sarges and It actually makes my "game" completely fucked up. Lots of hot girls were talking to me because I had a head that peacocked me a bit.

Drinking just fucks me up, I need to quit it and that way I can work on my inner game. It's not drinking that will help you work on your game, it's not drinking that will help it, on the long run.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 8:55 pm 
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Yeah I don´t drink and sarge . I prefer to by myself rather some over excited, semi drunk version of me. I feel more self conscious without the drink but I think that basically in the end you can think more clearly without the dutch courage.


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