Hey guys, I need some help on this one. I've been hanging out with a couple of buddies of mine and they're new to the PU scene. They are pretty shy and one is pretty hard on himself. Sometimes its hard to bring them into the fun that I have. i feel like I won't be able to expand my inner circle and have fun unless I drop them, should I have more patience or let one or both of them go?

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"If you're not living life on the edge, then you're taking up too much space."

its hard to do, but you have to drop them, find out who you are, find people who have similar interest, and when you are confident with who you are you can give them another shot, at least thats what i did

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-Dre

If your going to question me, you better have a theory behind your argument.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
-Harvey Fierstein

I have the exact same problem. Too bad I don't live in Arizona.

Heres my situation:

I was never picking up, neither were my friends. I changed so that I COULD pick-up and they didn't change themselves one bit. They said "all women are b!tches" and I said I need to UNDERSTAND women. I told them I was learning pua material. They laughed. My friends said "girls don't like when you approach them". I said if you do it right, they WILL like the approach. They didn't believe me. Then I got a phone number after an approach and told them how easy it was. They still didn't believe me. I decided: F*CK you guys then! And now I have no friends to pick up with and am working to remodel my inner circle.

I am only going to surround myself with "UP" people who have hopes and ambitions rather than negativity and doubt.

When I feel like NOT getting laid and NOT meeting women and NOT becoming the best me I can be, then I will go to those old friends houses and we'll play video games and they can tell me how sh!tty their lives are or how their girlfriends are snotty, controlling b!tches. Then I will go out - alone if need be - and pick up by myself.

Sometimes those around you may not like that you are changing. But you have to do whats best for you. Born alone, die alone. You are responsible for YOUR happiness. F**k your friends. They will see things your way once you start getting laid left, right and center...

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-Dre

If your going to question me, you better have a theory behind your argument.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
-Harvey Fierstein