Ive been gaming this girl for a few months now. Eventually she gave me the LJBF speech. Usually that would be fine because there are ways to get around that. But this girl absolutely DOES NOT hook up with somebody shes not dating. She is 19, as am i, so its not like shes a 14 year old girl here. I just cant figure out how to improve my situation here, she intertwines the LJBF with "i dont want a boyfriend" AND the fact that she thinks that getting with anyone shes not dating makes her a huge slut. So any suggestions how to get around this and improve my situation?

--Grappler

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Well once you're in the friends zone, that's a very tough hole to climb out of.

Was there a chance she was drunk (as in you both were at a party) when you hooked up? My thinking is that maybe she feels it was a mistake (not that she hooked up with you, but that she hooked up with any guy that wasn't her gf) and you were tempting in her eyes like the forbidden fruit.

I know where you're coming from though. I feel girls will SAY one thing and the DO something else. So she may say she doesn't hook up with guys that aren't her bf, but...well, you can fill in the rest. If she told you that she'd rather just be friends, I'd honor it, but keep one eye open. Stay your distance for awhile and see what happens.