Hi Guys,

This is the first time that I have posted on here. I have been reading about the game and seduction for a while now, but haven't actually put anything into practice, but I was wondering if the PUAs on here could reach out and give me some advice into a field that I am a little unsure of.

Basically, the issue is this, I have met this girl (I know, one-itus story coming up) who is amazing, and who I really want as my girlfriend. I told her that I thought of her in that way and whilst she is not looking for serous relationship she wants to date people, which is fine by me, the problem is I can't seem to pass the 'friendly zone' with her.

I have been out with her twice, and its been great, we have talked had loads of laughs, and I feel we are on the same wavelenth but there has not been any escalation into anything romantic. We have ended both nights on just a cheek kiss, and I don't know whether its because she doesn't think that about me, or if I am just not doing enough.

My question, therefore, is how do I

A) Notice signs that she does indeed think that way?
B) Escalate something on our next date to get me to a point of K close?

Any help greatly appreciated. I know that this is a total AFC question. Sorry.

I would try to structure your next date so that you can be seated next to her. Watch a movie at your house on a 2 person coach or something. Then slowly escalate kino. Get her used to you touching her. Start with her outer thighs and move onto her back and shoulders.

Girls just turn into putty when you do this. And in a slow part of the movie gently turn her head towards yours and kiss her. Or wait till the end of the movie if its a really good one like Forgetting Sarah Marshall.

Good Luck,
B-Man

Then you should know which forum section you should have posted this in.

Thread moved to Newbie Questions.

GFTOW

You should make a move when she gives iois.... For instance constantly touching you , looking in your eyes and all of that mushy stuff...... And if your too afraid to make a direct move on her then when the time feels right ask her how good of a kisser she is . She will , as all girls will , respond positively . Then all you have to say is ill be the judje of that ... That way is a little more indirect way to get a kiss close.