Hi I currently like this girl alot but she is a friend of mines we go out alot kind of like in date situations and she flirts with me alot and she also kissed me on the lips at parties but usually cause she is drunk, but when i said mayb we should go out she said she just wants to be friends. But she keeps flirting with me I don't know what to do should I make a move and. Do I even have a shot with her and what should I do if I do have a chance to get with her. I read the Game but that doesnt explain what to do with girls you are friends with.

man the fuck up and take whats yours!!!

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OK dude.. Heres the deal. She is interested in you from what I can tell, she just doesn't know it yet, or hasn't made up her mind about you. She is comfortable with you which is great, the problem is you haven't framed in her mind that you are worthy of her in 'that' sort of way.

What you need to do first and foremost is get over her. She knows she has you if she wants and that is unattractive. Its called cat-string theory. A cat will bat around at a waving string all damn day, but the micro second it actually catches it, the challenge has been met, and the cat will lose interest. Girls are the same way, for the most part. You must become 'unattainable' to a certain extent and present yourself as a challenge.

Getting over your one-itis with her will allow you to hangout with other girls without her occupying your mind. You must lose a certain amount a interest in her and realize you aren't some bitch she can hangout with when its convenient for her. Kind of have to play hard to get. When she is drunk, and goes in for the kiss, DO NOT LET HER KISS YOU. This will drive her nuts. She will start to think "Wait, whats going on here?" and she will start to pursue you harder. Keep playing hard to get; tease her, give her a glimpse but never leave her completely satisfied. (This is mental challenge, not a sexual one. Do you best to exceed her sexual satisfaction when you get there.)

Go out with other chicks too, and become more aloof when you would normally see her. Make your interactions with her more sexually charged, but cut them off sooner than you have in the past. Keep in mind, the early to moderate levels in this game are all about abundance mentality. You never want this mentality to leave you, but as you become better, it becomes subconscious and just a natural knowing, which is the goal. That way, you can pick whoever you would like! Including her. Then its up to whether you keep her around seriously, or convert to fuck buddy status.

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