Hey guys I really need your help on a problem I’ve been having with this girl. So I’ve been chilling with a group of people like ten because that’s the size of the group I hang with and were all around the same age 16 ,17. Now I feel like I showed her interest I mean I text her a lot I asked for her number like I feel like I’ve shown interest. Now she has shown interest to but its in a way where its really hard to pick out. Like she will look at me when I’m talking to other people and then look away and then shell always smile and say hi to me first and all that good stuff. So I know she’s defiantly showing interest my problem is, is that she’s not clear enough with her signs their so hard to read even though I know there. Like I feel when were hanging out she’s waiting for me to go by her and talk to her but I can’t always be the one doing it that’s not how it works. Its at the point now where I don’t know what to do like I feel I should be straight up with her say I think she’s cute and that I feel like I’m getting mixed signals and just try to see where I’m at. Tell me if you guys think that’s a good idea and if you don’t what do you think I should do.

Stop text messaging her, it will be your downfall. If you must text, get your message across and put the phone down. Don't try gaming, flirting or building attraction via phone, do it in person.

The signs are not clear because she doesn't want them to be. She wants to keep you on your toes and guessing. Women are notorious for this, and very good at it. This tactic puts 'them' in control and feeds their fragile egos.

My suggestion, stop giving her the attention she wants...make her work for it, let her chase you. Foucs on raising her IL and attraction. Send HER mixed signals, keep her guessing by showing 'some' attention, then take it away. She will welcome the challenge and be turned on by it.

Don't 'tell' her you like her, she already knows that...

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dude, just plan to go do somethign one of these days and next time you see her say hey! i was gonna go do so and so on such a day, how bout you join me? and leave it at that......

and dont make it sound like hey! i was gonna go to such a place id like for you to hang with me, cause i want you.......if you do that you might as well kick yourself in the nuts and bitch slap yourself 5 times.

so anywyas if she accepts
its you and her one on one............good for you so dont fuck it up

if she says no,
well you can either cling to the fact there is still hope lol...
.or take it as a lessoned learned and move on

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