Okay guys... i just started direct game today... and i got a few number. BUT now im totally stuck with what to do with the number? I was using the opener "i thought youre cute so i came to say hi" and the convo wasnt longer than 5 min for each of them.

should i like try to set a day 2? or should i try build some comfort first? as shes didnt literally invest anything in me at all im not sure how to stop the flakes from happening.

thanks a lot guys

zhu

I'd get some rapport and comfort first, or you won't stand much of a chance getting the date. Use texting or phone conversations to start getting rapport build ASAP. Don't wait to call either, since you didn't have a long interaction get on it now!

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^^ Exactly! . . . Seriously, I don't understand the wait 2 days 3 days thing . . .

Sometimes, I text within a minute of closing and saying our bye's. (This is when she's still thinking about you, "Hmm. . . that guy. . . he's kinda cool") beep, beep, beep . . . . You want to bet whether she's smiling or not when she sees that it's you?

Send her any dumb thing that continues the conversation you just had.

Text: Upon further meditation, I think the blue shoes suit you better. I'm sure of this.

She will immediately text or call back. Now the "text ice" is broken and it's not awkward at all because it was just a continuation of a conversation.

Bit different if you wait a day or two . .

waiting 2 to 3 days will ruin you, when i first got into the game I did this and it would always mess things up. I call the next day or send a txt before bed that night

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I have to disagree with some of the posters here. When a woman hears your voice that gets her thinking in ways about you that texting cannot. You are implanting your voice into her head. Texting is safe which is why afcs love it. You are just sending text back and forth, less danger and risk. When you actually call you are taking more risk and it shows you have confidence in yourself which is attractive to women.

implanting your voice into her head + confidence + more risk = don't be a wuss, call the b|tch!

the simple fact that you got her number and are calling her gets her hot. Her psychology is that she is not talking or txting another of her stupid girlfriends, she is talking to a guy on the phone! there is a sense of danger, risk, omg what could this lead tooo with this guy in the future???

thats some basic things going thru her head, calling gets her thinking about you in ways txting does not, plain and simple. This is why some top PUAS hate texting.

Texting is a good way to lead to the friend zone (i learned my lesson the hard way). It can lead to you becoming another of her girlfriends than than boyfriend if you overuse it and missuse it. Use texting for what it is best at which is giving a woman short commands, short messages, 1 liners

"ill call you back in a couple hrs" (short message)
"call me when you get home" (short command)

AVOID
1. txt conversations: AT ALL COSTS! unless you want to go thru what countless others have already learned this can definitely lead to the friend zone. If you want to have a conversation with her talk to her, don't text. Don't be another of her girlfriends that she txts all day, show some manliness and call the b|tch!
2. keep them short and sweet: txts are most effective with single liners.
Never set up an actual date by texting. This just doesn't make you look like a man in a woman's eyes that you took the important step into any possible relationship (going on a date) by texting her and not calling her.

Why? Nobody here is recommending texts over calling. And you're right. Calling is 100% the better way to go when setting up a meeting. However, texting certainly has its place in our little game.

Agreed! You make a very good point. Calling is a much better and more interpersonal action than texting. You are right that many new guys use texting as an out to actually calling a girl. Many guys actually lean on that crutch pretty hard, but the truth is it's harder to get the girl via text.

Luckily with all the sales and phone training I've had, plus working at a call center doing technical support I'm pretty damn comfortable on the phone.

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hey guys,
i just got a number after a smooth approach i made tonight. im glad im improving. now the phone call... weeks ago i messed up pretty bad by waiting too long. when i called i felt she was happy i did and remembered me but then, she turned off every meetings i suggested. i won't make the same mistakes again...

first thing i do tomorrow is calling her, right the fuck away!
i agree with many posts here, you shouldn't wait. texting is good so she remembers you, but it's never better than a phone call.

Agree on the waiting thing.

When I do day game I only do direct and I'll call later that day sometimes.

But if I can after I get the number I try to insta-date the girl right there even if it's something small like having her walk with me to grab a coffee or something close by.