NOTE: I posted a similar but different question in another forum. Sorry for the cross post, but I realllllly need some help/insight.


I have been seeing this girl (who's actually an old friend) about once a week for the last month. Sometimes it seems like she's really into me, and sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes we hook up, and sometimes we don't. I have been having a verrery difficult time figuring out how she feels about our situation, so last night I figures be a man and just ask her (afc mistake??). I told her she was hard to read and told her I really like her and asked how she felt about the situation, and she replied that she just figured we'd "wait and see what happens." What do you think? Was that a mistake? Should I withdraw for a few days and not contact her??? Thanks for your help!!

never discuss liking the girl until after the f-close



and always assume the girl likes you.

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Wrong you can deff tell a girl you like her but only after you are sure she likes you.

You first mistake was telling her "I cant read you". Women want to be understood and you basicaly just told her you dont get her at all and dont understand women.

2. You can tell a women you like her yes but only after you have gone on a date and know she is into you (you have kissed, cuddle ect). Also the way you say you like her must be confident! example: "You are an amazing women and Id like to spend more time with you". If she seems to be turned off then you stop talking to her for a couple days....push pull my friend.


the tactic I like to use is hang out with her, have a good time and make her fall head over heals for you....tell her you like spending time with her ext....and give her lots of complements.....then once you feel you have almost gone over board stop talking to her for a couple days. I will then text or call telling her I am going to take her out a couple days later.

Honest If you are confident you can pull almost any thing off....and when she seem to be turned off then you go cold on her.

Most men make the mistake of becoming friends first and then wanting more....its almost impossible once you are in the friend zone. I make it clear from day one what my intentions are and if she doesnt want the same thing then I basicaly say ok have a good life....9 times out of 10 the women will text or call a day later wanting to go out.

It's all in the frame. You can say just about anything to any woman as long as you say it with the correct frame.

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This. You can go up to her and just be like "I like you, and i'd like to get to know you"
As long as you say it correctly and in the right manner, it'll be as smooth as butter