Hey guys, its been a while since I last visited - I've been busy with assignments, and trying to keep with learning the whole PUA thing in the small amount of spare time I have.

Anyway, theres a girl I'm into, and I'm not sure what to do next or what to say or if I should be doing something or anything..pretty much lost as to what the next move should be. Hoping you guys could help.

Heres the background:

I'm a final year student at my college, and theres a girl I'm kinda into. We were in the same residence hall together in our first year, she had a boyfriend of three or four years who was also in the same hall, and we were all in the same group.

Anyway, her and her boyfriend broke up, not particularly amicably, but it was about a year and a half ago and they seemed to have moved on. I still see her ex here and there, play basketball with him occasionally, decent bloke, I'd consider him a friend but we are far from close.

I'm pretty sure she knows I'm into her and also fairly sure shes kinda into me, but not sure how much. We'd been getting quite close at some recent parties (after a bit of drink), but nothings happened yet.

The main problem appears to be that we've all been hanging out in the same group for a while and people would probably make a big thing of it if anything were to happen or was on the cards (her ex doesn't hang round with us anymore). Also, with this in mind, I don't know how to make a move, or isolate her (were always out in a big group and isolation rarely if ever would happen on its own) without it being patently obvious to anyone in the group, and have them making a bigger thing of it than it is, and causing potential problems.

Advice please?

You HAVE to isolate your target. Tell her discreetly that you want to spend a little time with her without the distractions of your normal group. If shes into you like you claimed, this should be no problem. Than you can get a better grip on what future the 2 of you may have with each other. Since your social circle already likes both of you, you have by default eliminated some potential obstacles. Now remove them from the board and let the game of 1 on 1 begin. Good luck

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Why isolate? Here's what I would do: Flirt with her (kino, whispers in her ear etc) with the group around but do it "secretly", ie touching her on her back so no-one can see, foot-flirting etc etc. This will be very exiting for her too, the whole secrecy, creating a kind of "us against them" mentality.

But really, why should the group care? If you are both part of it, is anyone gonna give a damn if you move from being friends to being a couple? I don't really see how this is an issue at all.