It's a bit long but needs a back story. I need some help with the more recent things because the stuff I think she means could be different from what she really means because I'm thinking positive.

I still have a thing for my Ex. I've had a couple of girls in this time but they just don't seem to work out. We broke up in July of last year after a year and a half. This was my first LTR.

August-She starts contacting me again about how she needs really usless things like a belt she never wears. I hear about her talking to some other guy through my best friend which is one of her real close family friends.

September-She kept saying things like I wish things could've been different. Also starts contacting frequently talking like how we used to then she tells my friend that she is going out with the other guy.

October-I delete her from my phone, myspace etc. which she later sends a friend request that I deny. Late in the month after no contact for a bout three weeks she kept sending text messages for three straight days asking how I was doing. So the third day I finally answer and she's concerened on why I wont talk to her. I then find out that she has broken up with him.

November-She told me she wanted to be friends and starts this trend of texting me every two weeks for "favors" to help with things on the computer etc. I met somebody and she started leaving me comments on myspace and the Ex saw it and texted me kind of jealous about it with some anger.

December-Her mom invites me over for New Years Eve party. I wasnt meeting up with the other chick til later and my friend was there so I reluctantly went. I had a good time and even talked to the Ex a little but before she acted like she didn't know me at first I think because she was in front of her family (Which loves me by the way) lol. The other chick kept calling throughout the night and one of the Ex's cousins must've informed her about this or something. After the ball dropped her family kept looking at us like we should hug and she hugged me but it was like more of a tight I miss you hug rather than a friend hug. I then left but my friend left something of mine over there.

January-She asks for a "favor" while I had left my phone when I was with the other chick and so that didn't go well they proceeded to go off on eachother for an hour til I came back.So I talked to her and told her maybe if she changed her attitude a little I might be more willing to do her "favors" if she could get my stuff back. This turned into her making me talk to her for three days because she kept postponing everything and kept saying things like "go head and call me simple minded like that bitch did" she couldn't get over what the other chick had said to her. She wanted me to pick my stuff up though I didn't I had someone else bring it and she then calls for her "favor" which she never does. After that I started to try and make her stop contacting me by sending her a message basically about having sex with her which she responded ok to lol. To stop getting her to ask me for favors and try and end contact I told her how to do everything she needed to know. Then she started making up different excuses to talk to me.

Feburary-Around Valentines day she texts with an excuse to talk and asks what's up so I told her that I was taking my mom out to dinner for Valentines day and needed an opinon on where I should go. So she said "is it for your mom or for somebody else?" Also kept saying "I'm surprised it's not somebody else" and "if it were for me I would want to go to..." Then she texted me for a happy Valentines day which was weird.

March-The other chick kept leaving me comments to talk to her again which the Ex may have seen which might havet made her confused. We were texting earlier this week and it was going well. She then asked what was new so I tell her a couple things and ask the same back and she says "Nothing really just been kinda confused lately" so I ask what about she then says "Well a few things". I had to go so yesterday we were texting again and the conversation was ok then I asked her about what she was confused about she told me "I resolved it but it was guy problems". I asked what kind of problems like did somebody Chris Bown ya or something?lol She said "Well this certain person has liked me since the beginning of school started and I was talking to him but then I went out with someone else but that was back in September and now we are talking again and I was kinda confused because the same situation was happening but I stopped talking to the other person and started talking to him now"

I think she may be talking about me but is trying not to put herself out there. I think she is still interested but I think it's because I want to think that. I was thinking of asking her out to lunch soon for 30-45 min. before I go out for my birthday to see how things go.

So my questions are:Do you think she is refering to me and doesn't want to put herself out there? Also:Do you think she is still interested? And feel free to add anything else you see. Thanks in advance.

Yep she is still interested in you. Just remember that you did break up for a reason (hopefully she wasn't a lying cheating whore who slutted herself with random guys at parties and then went back to her ex).

But anyway no need to bring my problems into this, I would just meet up with her and find out what she has to say. If you still like her than give it another go.

Else if she cheated on you (as did my ex), play along with her until she tells you how much she misses you, then tell her she's an uncontrollable compulsively lying whore, who is best suited to applying for the first available porn star postion to fullfill her desire to fuck as many random guys as she can, rather than resuming a relationship with myself.

But hey it just depends on the situation of the breakup.

I appreciate the feed back. Haha well I know she's not doing all that stuff were both young so her mom has got her on lock like wont even let her out of her sight lol.