Ok guys i think some of you may find this weird but im having a lot of problem picking up chicks cos i still subconsciously think its "WRONG" and by wrong i mean at times even if a girl is giving me IOI's im afraid to make the move,even after reading countless posts on this forum and other material i still cant drill it into my head that women like sex...the very thought of holding hands with a girl i just met terrifies me!!(let alone making out or sex)
so u see i cant improve game because of these issues (which happen to arise from years of religious and cultural conditioning).

Btw im an Indian so the social environment here is slightly different than the states of course most ppl in urban areas think its alright to have pre-marital sex and all but on the other end of the spectrum there are plenty of orthodox minded ppl still in existence who think otherwise(my family being one of them).

Anyways i got this book called as Nancy Fridays "My secret Garden" which i read abt in the game i hope it helps..... if u guys have any suggestions pls do help.Everyone is moving on and enjoying their lives and i dont wanna fall behind.

Inspite of having a cool personality and reasonably good looks(i think ) these sexual issues of mine are keeping me back.

Pls help and thanks in advance

Nancy Friday's book is a good step in the right direction. You'll quickly realize some of the desires that women have and how sexual they are.

I don't know about you but most of my life I was taught not to talk to strangers. That is was rude to interrupt people who are talking. That it was also rude or impolite to hit on people. For 18 or so years growing up this is what most of us are exposed to. Well, these are great when you're younger but not so much as an adult who needs to socialize.

Because of many of the things "burned" into our brains for many years it's hard to fight it. It takes quit a bit of going out to get more use to fighting these implanted ideas.

The truth is women love sex and want it. Women don't go out to drink and talk to their friends. They can drink, listen to music, and talk to their friends at home. They go out so they get the chance to meet people, that's why the get dressed up!

The more you realize where some of this comes from the better you'll be and counteracting it. But read the book you purchased. It has helped a lot of men realize what women find attractive and some of their hidden desires. I know you're not in the states but women from country to country aren't that different overall, even though there are some cultural differences. The same things attract them to the opposite sex and have for centuries.

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