I realized that when I open up to HBs and tell them about my problems and my life and stuff they get in a bad mood and I am DLV and complaining. In 7th-10th grade I would open up to HB7-8s that were 1-2 years older than me and always got them to think I was sweet, and suprisingly it didnt land me in the friend zone bc HBs would fight over me.

A few years later I have trouble picking up HB6s my age, opening up dosent get them to open up to me and let their guard down anymore.

Is "opening up, venting" just a bunch is DLV shit? Been always landing in the friend zone w/ girls I actually have interest in bc they dont want a boy friend that comes to them to vent or talk about their problems.

God damnit girls are SOOO confusing, I dont understand their bullshit. But I am gonna try a different approach this weekend and ill report it, thanks for all the help guys.

Girls you just meet do not want to hear about your problems. Its a huge turn off let alone a huge DLV. As far as telling a girl that is your girlfriend a problem you are having or venting that is something different. And your girlfriend should listen to you as that what a partner does in a relationship when the other partner needs to get something off their shoulders.
Girls aren't that difficult to understand really. You just need to know how to read and understand body language and be socially inept. To understand girls.

Dont push your problems on them but show a little vulnerability... Show a human side behind the cool exterior...

It is a DLV if you overdo it but it is not if you just tell of something that makes you human without expecting them to solve your problems. Girls want someone who is emotionally normal.