I am having a problem. 5 months ago two cute 21 year old aussie girls moved into my house in London as roomates. One of them has become my very close friend - infact the best female friend I have ever had. We have become really close, but only as friends. She has told me several times that I am the best friend she has made in London. She always comes out and parties with me, She has seen me hook up with random girls every weekend since she has been my friend - so she knows I can get other women when I want to.

We go out and get drunk together, hold hands and dance and have the best time. We get each other. In the last month or so I have started to have SERIOUS feelings for her - she could even be the one, and if we were together I know I would be the happiest guy in the world. I want her more than any girl I have ever wanted - and there have been many.

Last Saturday night we went out together just the two of us and got drunk and partied all night. It was awesome, until at the end of the night when she ended up making out with one of my mates - but just before this happened I made out with another cute girl on the dancefloor. When I saw her making out with my friend I felt shitty so I went home and left her with him. Later on when she came home (alone) I told her how I felt - It wasn't the most elegent way of telling her (we were both quite drunk), but she got the message. She doesn't feel the same way because we are too far in 'the friend zone'.

The next day was a bit akward (as we live together we see each other everyday of our lives) so I told her I was confused, and not sure if I felt that way about her - but that I might - I just wasn't one hundred percent.

She then said that maybe I was confusing our friendship (which is very strong) with something romantic. I was like 'yeah probably'. But I know I want her.

Any advice?

Use some Friends into Lovers patterns and a boyfriend destroyer if she has any feeling there for that guy she made out with... Go consult Ross Jeffries stuff... he uses Pnl aswell.