Hey Guys,

I need some advice.....

I have just come out of a 2yr relationship about a month ago. The other wk I had this girl Literally hunt me down! (I was taken off guard as she came out with NEG's flying!) whilst at a dance class ( thought i would learn a few moves! DHV).
Neways, after putting her in her place we talked for a little bit and really hit it off, and she followed me out and I K & N closed. I met up with her a few days later and she couldnt keep her hands off me and at the end of the night she gave me a BJ! Nice!

After she said she really liked me, and felt real attraction for me....etc etc! But she was a all or nothing kind girl, and if she sleeps with me she wants something out of it! Fair enough..

But i am feeling like its a bit 2 sn to jump into another relationship, but in the same breath i really like her! I really dont want to hurt her, as she has been hurt alot before and is generally a really nice girl! ( even if my description makes her sound a little ....err....liberated).
I think the best thing for me would be a casual relationship and see where it goes from there, but pretty sure she would not be down with that. I wouldnt even know where to start to ask for that, i am crap at talking about those kind of things.

She has invited me to go to her house tommorrow, which i am pretty sure will end up in bed.

So here is the question... do i have a open and frank conversation before anything more serious happens and risk losing her? Or should i just go with the flow and wait till that conversation rises?

Go with the flow and see how things progress...

She night just want a FB (fuckbuddy)... and she just might be looking for
a guy who she can spend the rest of her life with...

If this girl is one who likes to sleep around with many guys, be sure to
put a helmet on your soldier before you go into the battle zone...

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Cheers LEPRECHAUN, No worries, i wouldn't go into battle without one! (Unless she was really hot!)

If your uncomfortable with how fast the relationship is moving, TALK TO HER ABOUT IT! This is an excellent opportunity to show to her you are a confident dude who knows what he wants and what he's doing. More than likely dude, she already suspects that your a little uneasy with the pace of your relationship. Girls got that 6th sense to them, they pick up on shit like that. She wont be offended if you talk to her, but you'll confuse the hell out of her if you dont, and later on she may think you just want her for casual sex.

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"Who the f**k is Fanning?"

I think it was Mystery who said "You have to risk losing her to actually get her"

Whoever said it, its still great advice.

And yes, I would talk to her about it. Be in control of your world. This is your life. Do what you want with it. Don't let someone else control it.

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Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.

Cheers guys for the advice, I took it and has seemed to work! I told i wanted to take things slow, she wanted abit more commitment but is cool with taking things slow... Or so she says. My gut says that she is falling in love with me v. qwickly! (i know this sounds big headed....) but only had 2 dates and a dirty weekend! And although we click.. she keeps on telling me im 2 good to be true! never met anyone like u, etc, etc ( Which i admit is nice, but alarm bells start ringing!).
I seem to attract psycho's like u wouldn't believe, so much so i could run bootcamps on it! ( but i dont think they will be much demand!)
But my problem is that i am blind to the signs they give off, and end up in destructive relationships!
So my q is... is this normal? does it ring bells for anyone else? or is it just me being over cautious?

After writting this.... i think I know the answer.