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However, I seem to be doing ALL the work, as in I ask a question, she answers and doesn't return the favour
She doesn't have any reason to ask you questions. You may have not piqued her interest enough. I would say, forget all the questions about HER. Use the current topic to transition into some stories about the guy who was trying to start a fight with you, or about how you barley landed a crazy high jump on your dirt bike. The point is, she doesn't need to ask you about your life (and probably won't most of the time). You have to take charge, lead the conversation.
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the lifestyle seems like it must get a bit shallow at times
I don't know what context this neg was used in so I could be completely wrong, but it seems like a bit of a buzz kill. Your trying to heighten emotions, not throw a wet blanket on them.
Keep trying. If she still doesn't show interest. Burn it, and start fresh with a new girl. Good luck!